introducing to his bestfriend..

Yes.

Only time can tell.


So is his best friend married? It is an ego trip to be seen with a younger woman,so it might not be such a big deal introducing you to his bestfriend.


If he tells his female relatives (mom, sisters etc) about you, it would be a bonus.


Anyway, like you said, it's only been 3 months. What's with the rush to have a baby if you're not sure what you are to him.


Could you at least ask him first if he's game for a kid before you decide to do the oops I am pregnant thing.

I think ur kids should call him Grandaddy instead of daddy..wot u think?


Agree with Balzac re:the last sentense.

cliveeann1001: my advice to you is go with your feelings if they are real, take your time and while you feel like you are over the moon w/ the whole thing its better to just keep it yourself because sharing it even w/ ur closest friends/ much more in this forum its more likely you'll gonna have more negative advices than positive. W/ my experience when it comes to personal matters I don't need help to analyse things.

I can't see any point that you think you're stupid or crazy. Everything seems so natural. One advice is, "serious relationship" doesn't mean it must be end up forever marraige.

OK Guy perspective here.


If a guy is seeing a woman who already has kids then that is a big repsonsibility. Most guys who are not sertious would steer clear of a woman with kids.

If he was not serious he would not introduce you to his best friend. As a friend might say, 'find yourself a woman without the bagggage'.


I dated a woman with three children under the age of 7. This for me was a wonderful cahpter of my life. My male freinds were twlling me think hard. It was my female friends were telling me to run away (which suprised me).


Introducing you to a best freind is seeking thier approval. Yur man has probably spoken to your his best friend about you, a lot. He wants his best friend to meet you. When I said approval, I meant he WANTS his friend to approve. If his friend does not approve it will probably not affect your relationship together, your man will just be dissapointed.


Back to my story. The reason my relationship with the mother of 3 did not work is... she managed to convice herself (or was convinced by her other friends) that there must be something wrong with a man who is willing to take on three kids.

10 years later, I am married and she is still single. We remain good friends.


In short. I think he is genuine. It does not mean he is hearing wedding bells yet though. So take your time.