Posted by
asiahk
18 yrs ago
I have been hanging out with an expat for 2 years. He is now working oversea and we are having LTR relationship. A couple of months ago, we stopped contact and seemed he disappeared in my life. When i could find him finally, he would say call me later but never got his call back. I sent email to him but he didn't reply me much. My sixth sense telling me that he got another woman but i have no evidence. I feel so sad that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and now i am thinking whether i should let me go or not. please give me some advice what i should do and how to be strong to face this.
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yes you should whether you like it or not. It seems to me that he is establishing a relationship with no strings attached wherever he goes.
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Sorry girl..you know it's over and he's too cowardly to tell you.Been through this before and hurts like hell.
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yes, you should let it go. Meanwhile I find the guy is mean. With 2 years relationship you deserve a formal "goodbye" notice from him, not just stop calling or emailing.
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Sorry girl, let him go and save some dignity for yourself as yourself
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he's gone - no doubt. your job is to move on
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yes, you guys are right. He promised to call me today but he didn't do it finally. Now, i feel very very disappointed and he doesn't love me anymore. We used to talk about our future and he said he loved me but now he escaped from me and didn't want to say it formally as he knows the pain of saying it. i was such an idiot to believe that we can work it out even it is a long distance relationship. Now, i have to give up and move on. Are there any guys who are honest and loyal in relationship? how come i don't have this chance to meet them? I am now hopeless....
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ACFHK
18 yrs ago
Yes, He's definitely not yours and probably never was. I don't mean to be harsh but these things are meant to test us so learn from your mistake, we've all been there in some form or another. Take care.
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Asia, was it like formal bf/gf thing in the last two years? If it were a strong relationship, it should not have gone away so fast.
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I think our relationship is not strong enough even he was in HK. Today, I couraged myself to send the last email to him to say goodbye. yesterday and today, I cried so many times for this relationship. I do cherish the relationship but it doesn't work out. I have done all my best to keep this relationship ..... I have to give up ...... Now, I have learnt to move on and enjoy my new life (I have to or I will be very sad all the time). Although it is very hard, I am now trying to do my best.
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Well spotted Agamemnon.
Sounds like Asiahk already knew he wasn't serious about her. Or perhaps she just likes a lot of drama in her life.
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Asiahk comes across as a asian woman who's out for a white man....Does colour make a difference? Drinks at LKF....where people meet just to have fun....and get drunk...and you expect to develop a relationship? Girl, grow up...Anyway, just out of curiosity, what's a good westerner? And what's the difference between a good westerner and an easterner? Then what asian or chinese born or raised in Western countries...What are they called?
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Every relationship is different. What you expect from it , may not be the same expectation of the other party. When you realised that it's not working out, walk away with your head high. Save your dignity. What be bothered to be upset and hurt? Did you have fun too? When you say hanging out...what does it really mean? Did it include exchange of declaration of love for each other? If it didn't, then maybe it was a nice flirty hanging out relationship and nothing beyond that.
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To each their opinion...and Agamemnon...wow....talent for nitpicking....
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Hmmm....sensitive....interesting....
What you like is good everyone elses stinks!
Never thought that I was that sensitive....All i said was talent for nitpicking....a nice compliment, isn't it? ;)
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