why do i still think about him?

hi all,

it's been almost a year since i broke up with my ex bf. i have no regrets what so ever about breaking up with him but i still think about him some times. i don't ever want to get back together with him but i don't understand why i still think about him? does this mean i still have feelings for him? or, is it because i haven't met anyone yet?? any idea??

Everyone would do well to read and take on board these comments of Justin's, absolutely spot-on!

Thank you all very much for your great advice and kind words especially Justin credulous.


It's not that I sit down and cry and think about him all the time. I did move on. And I've never thought that I should have settled with this guy or anything like that although I do feel that I'm getting older and low some times.



Most of the times, I guess I wonder about how he is doing. I'm sure he's doing well just like I'm well.


I am pretty positive that love will come again and my attitude for life is positive and I'm very active in life. Just like Justin wrote, it's not abnomal to think about him, I guess, just like we think about a lot of things we experienced in out lives. I'm not gonna put too much thoughts into it. I never did anyways.


Again, thank you all!