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funnyhaha
18 yrs ago
I met this guy nearly a year now. We are a kind of sex partners, no strings attached friends, but we hold hands and watch telly, text each other, email each other...I also slept over in his place...The main hiccupps was he had a 6 year girlfriend living with him. A few months ago he told me he had enough and might move away but then of course, no further action. I was hurted but move on a bit, but we still keep contact when she was away, but a lot less then cos i really like him.
I still keep in touch and noticed that he went back to europe for a holiday during Easter. After he came back he text me at funny times like middle of the night and asked me to meet him... I did not do so cos i think he was drunk.
Last week I finally visit his place again as he told me he will go to europe again. Then i found he actually moved and staying by himself, his girlfriend were not there anymore.
I did not ask him anything, she actually already lived in Europe for good and he told me he have no plans to move there. Not sure what I should to do? Should i sit there and wait? Should I talk to him when he came back? or he need time to get used to be alone?? Or i just simply still a sex partner? just anxious.
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agree with crickey, if you are okay with just having sex, then not a problem, but if that is not what you want, you are better off without him.
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shaq
18 yrs ago
It seems to me that you know what to do and what you're involved.
Not meaning any offence, I'll say STOP KIDDING YOUR 'poor' SELF!!!!
ShaQ
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anyway, i can expect the "model" answers from you guys.
I do not want to jump in becoming his girlfriend, but i like to further develop our chance if now there is a chance.
shaq> i'd involved for a long time, I just getting out of it a lot already. But if you like someone, you would think there is a chance of getting closer, right?
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you can or cant expect model answers? what answer do you want, yes, its okay, talk to him and ask him if you guys have a chance? im sure he's not going to say yes and probably take the easy answer, "maybe, we never know". what are you going to do?
"if you like someone, you would think there is a chance of getting closer", yes of course, you're right but to me it just means hoping and it may be false hopes.
anyway, you're really the one who knows what's going on between you too, so open up your mind and really see what it is, then, you do what you have to do.
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He doesn't seem all that serious about you. I mean he moved out and didn't even tell you. Shows where you are placed on his priority list.
Then again, if you want to know just ask him about it.
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Yes, I do know i am not in his piroity. I asked him why he did not ask me to meet him all this time, and he answered "You did not ask."
Somehow i think he is not in an urgent state in getting into anything, and he still having his girlfriend in the other country, so he just took it by the mood. I actually did not ask him anything about his girlfriend or where he lived cos i also want to avoid the topic.
anyway, think i cannot do much about it.
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You look desperate but anyone can see and understand why.Now,you not seem to be a women who is able to enjoy her self when hubby isn't around and a perfect wife,when he is.Therefor you need either to break with that relationship and find your self a man who is around you or your hubby has to break with his job if he dont want to loose you but now his sweet live will be destroy't and he want be happy and without a job.He will be home 24/7 and you will hate him for that and you will hate your self for make him stay home.So what will it be??? After all,he do it for his famaly.He pay for you,pay your famaly,only you not get the touch of a man more as you would like,right? Ok,keep what you got if he is happy this way too and do what he is doing.
Have fun with others and enjoy your self nicely.Your right,your getting older and soon your to old and feelings will disappear for the greatest thing in the world.Your remember the saying: If you dont use it,you loose it!!!
This is a through think and anybody will tell you this who expirienced it for years like you.
Don't wait no more!!! Go for it!!!
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Grrrr8888, i have a husband and i can complain, like all the other wivies here!!
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Just because a man is alone in the country and having sex with you, it doesn't mean he's emotionally available or even, interested in you. Do you also want to be with someone who cheated on his girlfriend of 6 years? Not every option has to be taken just because it's available.
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freedem, what happened? i got confused, i thought i mistakenly clicked another thread, huh!!!!
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Surely you don't want to be a beck-and-call type of sex partner do you?
Are you willing to play this role just to "get closer" to him, in the hope of eventually becoming an official girlfriend? You know you're not in his immediate priority, so why settle???
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do u need another partner|
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