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Ms_Wing
18 yrs ago
13th, I am with you. The busier people are, the less amount of time they have for sex. read an article in Canada that people living in eastern canada (i.e. Newfoundland) have more sex than people in western canada (i.e.Vancouver) haha interesting point.
Bonkest capital of the world is such a flattering name though haha. ERG do you mean people get more opportunities out here and hence the name?
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here you go, folks - enjoy!
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here you go, folks - enjoy!
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Bonkfest!? Sounds like sommat a 15 yr old lad would say.
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Thing is in Old School Chinese culture, you are not supposed to sleep around, and are preferably a Virgin when you get married, or at least that's what your potential M/F in law think anyway! Don't think many girls take this to heart, though being casual is a no, no. As for the men they like their own to be 'pure'of course!
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I don't think the younger generation chinese really care about virginity,and their parent most likely know that their kids have been there done that.... As for the Bonkfest city comment, i think it's only for the expats here... I think a lot of white guys come here and all in a sudden, they get laid a lot more than when they were stuck in their own town... As for the locals, I wonder how turn on you can be when you know clearly that your parents may be eavedropping next door
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I don't know how many people remember this program of BBC couple years ago... there's this woman who stay virgin for THE ONE, and she's 47 and still waiting!! Come on people, really, tell me , is it really worth it?!
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wsbh
18 yrs ago
Depends on the importance you place on sex as well as virginity, surely? Virginity is just not having done it, and if sex is just a pleasurable act between consenting partners then no biggie. Otherwise, religion aside, if it's a symbol of a deeper commitment then it is important.
My gf is mainland Chinese, and younger generation (22), and it's important to her. I don't know many HKers my age though, so can't comment about them.
Will
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Committed as in asylum committed?
In the UK I believe the average age to pop one's cherry is 16. No idea what it is in HK but my guess would be that unlike the UK, there aren't that many places you can sneak off to. Aside from culture, I think the lack of opportunity makes it harder for the young 'uns to have a quick legover.
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sheltered life?? Well, far from true I tell you!! I would like to re-phrase that " only white guys" ....I mean, all the expats here, men and women!!!I am sure all the expat ladies get load of action too!!
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So where in HK do "kids" lose their virginity? Surely not in their flats? Parents are in the office, but in Chinese homes, I get the impression that the grandparents live with them.
You see these teen couples glued together in MTRs, I wonder where they go for some afternoon delight?..
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Well in my day it was the bike sheds or down Lovers Lane. Sadly there are no such places in HK. Poor, frustrated young teens. No wonder they grow up collecting Hello Kitties and dressing like overgrown 8 year olds.
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wsbh
18 yrs ago
Are you a virgin too wsbh?
Sadly, no, but I think it was a mistake (I'm 21 and not yet married). She left me and I realised the relationship wasn't as important as I thought at the time.
Nor do I expect my future wife to be though. That double standard does annoy me when I see it.
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Vulvic, that is a funny one but true. I do wonder how they deal with intimacy doing it and I am sure they have their own way.
About virginity for me, it stands itself for someone to be proud of. For others it may not be a big deal but once for sure when they get to be with someone who is a virgin, and I hope that is just after marraige, I am sure he feels that he is on top of the world. Not only that he is the first one but his wife trusted him that he is worth it that is why she gave to him.
Wouldn't you guys feel the same way?
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I thought I heard my mother talking.
Whether the person is a virgin or not, it should have no impact in the relationship. If it makes a man to know that his gf/wife is a virgin to be on top of the world, he misses out a lot. It should the person he is with not whether if she is a virgin.
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A person who is a virgin PROBABLY has never experienced a mature relationship. Usually they become psychological nut-jobs later in life.
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Well I think you are right there freshjive, what I am only saying is that if the girl is still a virgin but does not really have be that she must be a virgin.... What am I suppose to do then if that is the case? Rot myself? hehehhe
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blaze
18 yrs ago
It's a nice idea that your partner has been saving herself for you, that you're the only man she's ever slept with etc. But many guys tell me that they DON'T want a virgin because a lot of these girls become very repressed sexually and don't enjoy/are afraid of sex because of the religious indoctrination. So the men also become uncomfortable in bed.
Of course virginity is not an indication of personality, maturity etc. Just an attitude towards sex. Some people are more open, others are more conservative. It's all about finding the right match.
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Lots of my male friends prefer woman with experience (thou not overly!) and they secretly wish she is a virgin. I think sex is something 2 people should enjoy together - the connection. I'd hate to think that if I save up for my husband till our married bed, and find out that we are not at all sexually compatible?! and one thing will then lead to another...
Good sex helps keep a relationship (not married) healthy... and stable, don't you agree?
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Oh dear, you really sound aggrieved itchyfeet. That was the opinion of men I've met, not my own. But i have to say that a couple of my ex boyfriends were virgins or have had very little sexual experience before they met me. And the sex was... bad. Really bad. It wouldn't send me running to discover a guy I'm dating is a virgin. But I wouldn't be as keen as I was before. It's not about technical skills alone. The guys who were virgins were too conservative and self conscious in bed... and that really didn't turn me on.
By the way, not all sexual acts lead to pregnancy. I know of a number of devout Christians who are "virgins" but have had oral and anal sex with several partners.
Not saying you should follow their example of course. Or even that it's bad to be a virgin. I'm sure your reasons are valid. Maybe people were shocked to discover you're a virgin, since it's not so common anymore. But at the end of the day, it's all about finding people with a compatible sexual attitude. One man's meat is after all another man's poison
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Well, you'd still be a virgin technically. But whether you'd be one in the mind is another thing, haha...
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