The man from the Internet...

Can you ever trust the man you get to know through the Internet (for example dating websites), more so if he's your husband now?


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Hi Arev


I know it's not easy to meet decent guys through the internet, but I met my ex-boyfriend

online. We had a lot in common and I didn't feel like it was my first time to meet him

when we actually met in person.


It doesn't matter how you meet your boyfriend.

I was a bit shy to tell friends how we met, but I'm really happy and feel lucky to have met him.


He was a great guy and trusting person. We had been dating for about 2 years.

We broke up eventually...but I still do like him and hope he feels the same...(*tears*)


Hope things work for you :)

It is not HOW u meet the person, is WHO the person actually is that matters. If you think about it, conversing with people online is kind of like pen-pals like the old days.


The means of interaction is not really that important, is just that people in the society nowadays are naturally deceptive, and at the end of the day, of course, talk is cheap and thus he/she could just say things that are far from the actual truth.


Interacting with people online does have its pros-and-cons. Firstly, there is less tension between the two when they are not so familiar with each other, and you can get to know the person better and wait till you are comfortable before you decide that you want to date that person. Further, assuming the person is being honest to you and about himself/herself, then you will get to learn about the person on a deeper level rather than judging a person superficially by first impression of looks and/or behaviour. There are lots of things that you can comfortably talk about online without the awkwardness of talking face-to face, especially when you don't actually know the person that well.


I met this girl at an occasion once, while we weren't really looking, we exchanged contacts as a group and started conversing online. I must say I had absolutely no intentions to go after her initially, but we really clicked and we really enjoyed talking to each other. As we learned about each other more, we discovered this connection between us and I felt that I have finally met someone that understands me, and realised that I have feelings for her. She told me that she felt the same way, too bad things got complicated and didn't end well :(


Till this very day, I must say she is still the only person I have ever met that understands me so well, and I still miss her every moment... I just regret that it didn't work out at the end.

That depends on where you met them on the internet, I mean was it AFF? Coz then..hmmm...you would have to question what you were doing on there in the first place and then go, heeeyyyyy, so wait, he was on there for the same freaky reason???

Do you really trust that communication? Just by writing and web cam? I mean, do you feel the eye contact? Body Language? Not because of AFF or what, but the actual communication with eye contact and body language really show a lot that you won't know by just writing.

i agreed what fatkid said, i also met some men who i known them online but may be it was not the right time or i am not so lucky as him. At least they don't have time for me, even they are also live in Hong Kong... If u take time to chat with someone, it is not hard to know that do they are tell lie or honest...


I am a native chinese and not a talkative person, some people thought that it is existing communication barrier due to i am not good at english, it is not total right. If u really care about someone and want to talk w her/him, it is not the problem of language, if u are the mother of new born baby, could u give your kids up .. it is just depend on do they have patience to each others.


May be it is lucky to me or i really stupid , no one can pretend or last to hiding their real of them. It need take time to know someone else without shortcut.

I've never met man from internet or web so I don't have experience. However, I believe that woman has her intuition to feel the trusty of man. However, if fall in love/trap too early, it would make you a blind and nothing you could see clearly!

"Time" is the best inspector to prove everything. Good luck!

If you don't trust him, why married him?

Finding Mr. Right from the internet is like Mission In Possible

Not everybody out there is a bad guy, or good guy.

Not everybody on a website site is bad guy, or good guy.


Finding anyone is a numbers game. The more people you meet the more likely (and faster) you will meet somebody suitable.

By the same maths, the more people you meet the more not so nice people you will meet.


The computer cannot choose a partner for us. We need to use our judgement here. Sometimes we get it wrong, but that is not the fault of the medium. That is called experience.