Posted by
sweet_24
18 yrs ago
I am a 24 year old-gal, smart and sexy...as what my friends always told me.
But i fall for a tomboy, she really looks like a man...dressed up like a man have feelings of a man indeed. i really love her so much to the extent that i gave up my previous high waged work for her and ended up on a simple living with her, and she too gave up her work just to live with me. we adopted an adorable baby girl before we settled down...and now i am just the one working and she stays at home taking care of every thing inside the house (washing clothes, cooking, etc.)my problem is my salary not enough for us especially for baby's need.
I want to gave up now, but there's something pulling me back...IS THIS LOVE???!!!
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JC - she's working in HK before and i'm working as an office girl in HK too, but now we're in our home town, in ASIA...
My families and friends keep on advising me to find a guy, marry etc, etc...but i can't afford to loose them esp the baby.
Naima - She doesn't want to work here, its useless(We're in a country that has economic crisis) she wants to go back to HK to work but we don't have enough money for the expenses of going there.
families and friends were fed up of helping us - on both sides.
Life is so unfair, maybe because what were doing is a sin - to be committed on this kind of relationship. How i wish that i'm just on a nightmare, and tomorrow i will be awaken to a new life...
thanks for the advices!!!
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i do love her so much, i know she do love me too...shes 9 yrs older than me.
i thought we can work out our life in here with the baby, she put up business and doesn't even gain a single cent...until i decided to work.
we're both suffering...
i know she wants to give up too, but she keeps on telling me that shes scared on what will be her without me.
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will i still fight for this relationship? will i still work hard for them? find a part time job to earn more money, and workout for the best?
i really dunno what to do...i'm really tired now,but i do love her and the baby!!!
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thanks for the encouragement JC...i was enlightened!!!
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yes theres nothing like a good dose of reality check from JC, I agree with JC 100% on this. You do need to help yourself in this situation and also be firm with your partner.
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Guess JC have given you good advices.Your partners can work too!Or if the country you are staying have day time chidcare centres you may consider to have your bub there in the day.And both of you work.Gd luck!
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If you both adopted the baby then you are jointly responsible for that child untill he/she is atleast 18. You can't just give the child back now you've had enough. When you adopt you become the childs parents in every way.
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