should i take this step...

hi,

i'm 26yrs old girl and i can hardly find a suitable man. I believe it's really hard to meet a touching person, Mr. Right. I never go clubbing, matching club,etc. Should I go...?Can anymore give me some suggestion?


thanks.

It seems like you feel insecure and want someone for the sake of having someone.


There really is no point rushing things cos of that, or you will just end up with someone that is not right. You've got to look in the right places for the right person too, maybe you should describe what is it in a guy that you are after?

thanks for ur sharing fatkid.

I think i am not only want someone, but want to love and beloved. I hope i can work hard on what important to me.

Yup i dun wanna end up with someone like that. However, i dunno where is the right place to. And I know that clubbing, matching club...are not a suitable place to me. Coz i'm quite old-fashion mind...

I think you also point out my problem that I require a quality man, he should be kind hearted, responsible, faithful and hard working person. More important, we understand each other. I find this is very important to maintain a good relationship.

then it seems clubbing is the wrong place? LOL. u know what ppl hooking up when clubbing are after...


dunno about matchmaking clubs... but never believe it works anyway :P


I suppose ur profession gives u little opportunity to meet ppl?

Ah Mei

Think about social networking websites and or internet dating.

In this modern world it is so hard to meet anybody.

Lots of people do internet dating these days, so not much stigma attached anymore.


Before anybody says don't do it there are creeps out there. Yep, there are creeps you meet in the office as well. Just take precautions about personal safety.

Dear Ah Mei,


I believe in destiny and faith, the good and the perfect one is out there, your soulmate will come sooner or later. You don't have to push your self so much, just let it flow and enjoy your life and be happy *_*

Dear fatkid, tigerbay and Ms Goodwill,

Thank you all your sharings.

I think I will never give up to find my Mr. Right.

yup tigerbay you are right, i should try it before saying No.

I know that Mr. Right is not easy to find but it should be a good thing to wait for him.

Ms Goodwill is so positive and i will always remind myself to enjoy my life and live with loneliness before i meet my other half.


I wish you guys all the best too^^

'Live with loneliness before i meet my other half?' You believe the other half will combine and make you whole? NO NO NO - that is the wrong attitude and belief to hold on to. Your life is too precious to be put on hold as a half for that someone who will make you whole. Ah Mei - live it up now and find the whole-some person within YOU. In doing so you will be an attraction to everyman who discovers that you are not dependent of their attention to validate or make you feel good about yourself. Being single has its virtues - enjoy the unfettered liberating free time to explore and get value added time with your colleagues, friends, family and even strangers. Go out and live life to the fullest. Dont compromise on the belief that you start living when you are in partnership with a certain someone!! It could be heavenly or a nightmarish experience. Either way dont put life on hold for someone to be the piece that completes you. Be your own person with self assurance, confidence, self worth and inner strength, strong will and self sufficiency - traits that will attract men like magnets to you. Dont look to others for happiness - be happy and in sharing you will attract people who will delight in your company and find happiness with you. You are special - no one can be like you - EVER. Go girl - dont just live in thoughts and dreams - take ACTIONS to spur REACTIONS. Galvanize, motivate and be a joy to others and to yourself. Good Luck