Longest relationship you have had?



ORIGINAL POST
Posted by Vulvic 19 yrs ago
OK I am 30 and the longest relationship I have has was 3 years. Currently single.

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COMMENTS
lulu 19 yrs ago
39.Longest relationship is 9 and a half years. No marriage, that was 23-33. Still very single now.

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Lurch 19 yrs ago
46, 19yrs, just divorced. Single and available now

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
And raring to go, it seems. LOL.

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Lurch 19 yrs ago
Too right ...

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Ha! Me too. It's fun being single although you'd never think so after reading the plethora of threads about finding b/fs.

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Lurch 19 yrs ago
Pity you're in HK .... but then again I'm past it :-)

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Indeed. Actually I did date a guy who was 50 not too long ago. Nice guy but very diff sense of humour to mine.

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Lurch 19 yrs ago
Indeed ... that you're in HK or Indeed that I'm past it or both?

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
......that I'm in HK

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Lurch 19 yrs ago
You're so sweet ... x

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Hope that's cheered you up you old minger. Lol

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Lurch 19 yrs ago
Happy as two happy things

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Lurch 19 yrs ago
Yep .... Good effort

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iveniv 19 yrs ago
24. Longest one is 2 years. Had it coming. Sweetest and worst moments were all in there.

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shannon-sg 19 yrs ago
Longest relationship : 7yrs... till i was about to turn 30, and gave that up when he said he has never thought about marriage! Just ended a 6yrs relationship. Now 38, single and gosh, at times i wonder what will happen next!!! I suppose no prefect situation!!!!!

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hypergirl 19 yrs ago
The longest relationship that I had was 1 year.

And I'm 29

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space-dust 19 yrs ago
hey hypergirl: hehe me too, the longest I had was 1 year but my marriage now has lasted 6 years...

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betsyds 19 yrs ago
30, single now. Longest i had was 3yrs. Shortest time i was with someone is 1 year.

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lulu 19 yrs ago
JC> well i had nearly 10 years relationship,it was pretty sad but i choose to leave him. As he was not cheating me very nice and he got an affair. I feel like leaving a burden behind when i walk out.


Actually we were planning to get married as well...how sad...but i think the saddest thing i still think he is the nicest guy i ever met.


thats cruel.

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lulu 19 yrs ago
sylph> yes, he did cheat on me. I know he met a new rich girl in LKF, and then he went out late very often. One day he behaved very different and i asked him if he did sleep with the girl, he admit and i left the house that second.


We did go out for nearly 10 years but i think that 10 years was a good one and i treasure that. I dun miss him now but glad i had this relationship.


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BumpyDog 19 yrs ago
I'm 35 and longest relationship is my current one - 3 years.


Weetabix - It may get harder to find - ie. initiate - a relationship as you get older, but I don't think it becomes harder to maintain a relationship. Most people mellow out and become more tolerant as they age. Although of course there are those who get more set in their ways.

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Marmo 19 yrs ago
22. lasted 2 1/2 years. not bad going for first and only r'ship so far...

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Mariah anna 19 yrs ago
hey jc,whose that friend of your's dates don't last for 4 months, maybe he's the one who my friend dated and did'nt last that long.

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tia 19 yrs ago
33. 3.5 years is the longest. Most of mine lasted at least 8 months.

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rio 19 yrs ago
21. 3 months tops...maybe i'm too young?

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RolyPoly 19 yrs ago
I'm 26. Longest relationship was 7 years. My present one has lasted 1 year so far...

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Miamour9hk 19 yrs ago
31, always ran into LDR... then it usually lasts for 3 months to 1 year, but physically seeing each other: bummer!

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lulu 19 yrs ago
Yeah. No one beleive that i am still single! I think all the same time i can say i have 5 guys like me, but none of them really want to have a commited relationship with me. Am i not harsh enough to force that happen? I think so.

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lulu 19 yrs ago
JC> i think you have too many assumptions on me.

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sue751120@163.com 19 yrs ago
30,10ys with my ex-husband(2yr marrige),all things like a dream,He is my first love,but one day we found we dont match each other,after painful times,I decided giving up.Happened 3ys ago.I am single now.Most of time lonely and sad.

Life like a big joke to me!

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rio 19 yrs ago
JC, thanks...not so much in a hurry right now...best to have time for myself..

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sue751120@163.com 19 yrs ago
JC,thank you.I am trying to be happy.I am new to shanghai.Best to make more friends here.I still believe in love...

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easygoing 19 yrs ago
JC, would you like to share with others as well how old are you and the longest relationship you ever had ?

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curly 19 yrs ago
I'm 35, just come out of an 8 year relationship. Currently single!

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Krabi 19 yrs ago
6 yrs, 2 yrs, 2 yrs, 5 mths, 3 mths, 3 wks, 1 night, 1 night, 1 night, 1 night, 1 night, ........


Oh well!

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AOP1JF 19 yrs ago
come on people you cant count 1 night as relationship....thats just a shag! LOL

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lammasita 19 yrs ago
maybe a relationship qualifies if you are bought a bacon sarnie at the Flying Pan??!!! It's the next morning for goodness sake!


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AOP1JF 19 yrs ago
hey does this make me the winner? ...or perhaps the loser? lol


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beachBBQ 19 yrs ago
I am Shanghainese, the longest one is 6 years, hurt my heart but never give up. Still single, 37.

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shirleythien 19 yrs ago
31. Always single and alone. Longest r/ship? A couple of days.

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Insouciance 19 yrs ago
I'm an Australian male 41. My longest was 20.5 years almost to the day. We parted great friends, still with a lot of love. I just followed that spectacular feat with a two year relationship almost to the day as well. And this one finished with a lot of love and friendship too. I'm single now for the first time in my life since I was 18 which feels remarkably strange but considering how lucky I've been in love I have no regrets.

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voiceofreason 19 yrs ago
39 years old

4 years w/ ex-husband (3.5 married) - divorced amicably

current: long-distance relationship since february. he wants to get married. i love him but have very mixed feelings - i don't want to leave asia, or my great job.

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giggling_gal 19 yrs ago
32, and I still believe in LOVE

Longest relationships: 3

Duration: 8 months, 5 yrs, 2 yrs

and some casuals in between.

Forgive me, if I sound naive but if you dont have hope, happiness will never laugh at you!

And if there's not another half for you, pls dont forget there are still others who love u most.

Cheerio,

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Actually my longest relationship has been 8 years, with my dog. And still going strong, lol!

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admux 19 yrs ago
i'm 35..... longest relationship was my 1st... 16 years.... been seperated for 1 year now...

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giggling_gal 19 yrs ago
why has JC a part II? and why has JC or JC II never answered the question? why are you asking these questions? Anything u need to share?

I'm very curious about that....

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admux 19 yrs ago
JC (II),


what's the reasoning about "never date or marry an only child brought up by a single mother....."

just interested to know....




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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Selfish and don't like sharing their toys.


That would be my guess.

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
How has he changed since you had your son?

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
Well one out of two aint bad, lol!! If you had a choice between a good hubbie or a good dad, I know you'd choose the latter.


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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
I think that's what most parents strive for, to give their kids better than they had. I mean this in the emotional sense aswell as the material sense.

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Timtams 19 yrs ago
i just dont know... longest relationship probably lasted me 2.5 years but then again im only 24 so got a bit of time to build on things..

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Vulvic 19 yrs ago
.....or it could be a slippery slope from now on!


Only joking!

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@@ 19 yrs ago
36 years old (OLD according to Thunder Chunder!)

12 year relationship, still going strong.


Prior to that a couple of 2 year stints and a little playing around in between!

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maximum07 19 yrs ago
3 mounth...

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giggling_gal 19 yrs ago
Conclusion......there is not always another half for every....sigh. Well, i'd rather make the best out of life with or without men!!!

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SMAG 19 yrs ago
26 years old and my longest relationship was 5 1/2 years-though I think it went on for about 4 1/2 years too long. Took me 18 months to get the courage to break up with him


Maybe not another half/soulmate but surely there is someone out there for everyone? Give us something to hope for!!!!

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Kiwi_Elaine 19 yrs ago
The bear- According to the cencus, females out populated the males by 13,000 people in the 25-55 age group. The chance of meeting a guy here in HK is slim my friend!


I wonder how many guys there are to one female? um.....

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Kiwi_Elaine 19 yrs ago
Boy! or should I say MAN!!


I should go there and find myself a guy! j/k.

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flabbergasted 19 yrs ago
oh, sh*t, we were meant to give our aGE....not out of vanity but protection....I love it really when everyone actually gasps ( even some close friends who didn't know recently - never tried to hide it but never figure it's important).....but so many men are hung up on age (and women) that I cannot be bothered. Don't mind when employers gasp, when actual credential have to be shown, BUT do mind when people disbelieve what I have done because I am meant to be young....


But must say, good for attracting people on a different level, but a higly superficail way to do it...


;-)

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