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qoidnef
19 yrs ago
OK....here is the question: Boom... I just arrived few month ago from Portugal. This place is very nice but also very strange. In my country very difficult to have one night stand. When you want to be with a girl you have to show your feelings, charming her for almost 1 month. But here complete opposite, before I understand a girl i really don't care about jumps into my bed. Nice...Guess the next...
I really don't care, so i don't call her for a while but she calls. Tell me our relationship is over and then want to see me again and here she goes into my bed again. I really don't understand but nice... ;o)
Few weeks after, the same story repeat with another girl. I tell her I'm seeing someone. She doesn't care and my bed get really crowded.
The first one be aware of that by checking my SMS. Not nice...but in my country nobody check my sms, anyway instead of stopping to see me she still want to maintain the relationship. That is very strange.
I decided to stop with both of them because I don't like when my bed is too crowded. It was too easy and just based on sex. I prefer something solid and true.
Here we go few month after. I met a girl who explode my bloody heart. She make me feeling like an angel. Of course then I am sweet. take things slowly, get to really know her. We have a good time and I can see her feelings are developping. After five dates I thought it was the right time and I want to kiss her. Boom...Here she goes "yakyakyak you just just want to have sex..you are so quick...we need more time...and i'm busy with my work".
Boom...boom..boom... That's the sound of my broken heart....
Anyway when you don't care they run, when you care they run in the other way and locked up their heart. Exactly the opposite of my country.
Have you any explanation ?
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lulu
19 yrs ago
well, it just you`d met 3 different women.
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Pity that the one you cared about ran....and strange after five dates that there was no kiss....I mean that is not fast for any girl I do not think unless she is either lying OR a nun....I mean kissing....even my mother approves of kissing....and she is 568 years old, and was always the damned goody goody two shoes...
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Pink Tulip - I totally agree with ya! Where on earth do people find all these lunatics? But hey Goidnef, you sure is a lucky man *wink*
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lulu
19 yrs ago
goidnef. you should let the guys here to know where to get these easy girls...lol
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Hey guys,like everyone goes ...in LKF.
Reading your post I'm surprised, I have the feeling I'm the only guy who had this kind of situation, is it true ?
How you meet some girls in HK ?
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shaq
19 yrs ago
Yeah, HK girls, especially the locals are ever ready to kick it with a 'gweilo'. So, GOIDNEF enjoy the ride. Take care though, for you might fall off. I wonder why the girls don't give we, the blacks, some ride too. Hmmmmmmmmm :).
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oh really? i realised that those i thought they were local HK girls, they were actually some Thai, Indonesian, philipino. This group is real turkey shoot, they just throw themselves to you as long as you are gweilo, even i am not that handsome(well,in my country)teehee. Whoever in this group i hit, i got! I never missed so far ;-)
But those real local HK girls are pretty big-nosed, they do choose a bit....I thought you only needed to show them $$$, but not true cos i failed many times.....Not as easy as i expected....Better not to swim in this pool....
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lulu
19 yrs ago
shag> i do know a lot of girls only like to sleep with blacks. So what have you missed?!!
Handsomeo> this is the fact that many asian girls do like to enjoy being picked up and lurk to bed in Hong kong, so as in many places in asia. In Europe or Us, there is also a lot of pick up when you travel to a strange land at the bars or a place in LKF. There isn't much difference.
goidnef> do you think you can really find many "nice" girls in LKF?
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shaq
19 yrs ago
Lulu> Hmm! I heard that too, but I haven't been there yet. I guess I should open my eyes well. Thanx for the 'filla'. Between, where are there ladies who wanna sleep with blacks; where do they paly? Haha..... :) I wanna know.
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lulu: ok so where can i find them ?
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lulu
19 yrs ago
I try to find nice man too, but it is not easy. Just meet people through friends , that might be a bit safer. Or join some hiking groups, outdoor exercise sports group, etc...
Hong kong is just difficult to meet people.
I just know there are many slappers in LFK, men or women.
Shag> in Wanchai? think they have a market there.
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shaq
19 yrs ago
Lulu > Ah! OK, I'll try then. Boy, it has been a long time.
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Handsomeo, no need to sound so smug for scoring a few asian women. Remember that foreign workers get cooped up 90% of their time, so when there's a day off, they pretty much do what they like. I've seen them in action in places like Wanchai. They pretty much call the shots. Most of the time they just need to scratch an itch. Any decent looking bloke should suffice.
Godneif, 5 dates, that's not five months of dating, is it? No big deal. Catherine Zeta Jones wouldn't let Michael douglas kiss her after a year of dating. How about that?
She's just a conservative/good girl. Go for her.she will let you know when the time is right.
Shaq, times are changing. Asian women will tire of the caucasian dream and venture into other horizons. Good luck.
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Lulu - many slappers in LKF??
And waht about the rest of us that go there to meet our friends and relax after a week at work? I suppose we're slappers too.
With an attitude like that I'm surprised you make any friends at all.
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rats
19 yrs ago
goidnef,salute!- for being a real gentleman. :D
If you really like that girl, try to contact her, it is not strange that she doesn't let you kiss her after 5 dates. Well, when all expats have the bias that HK girls/Asia girls are easy and only after their 'status/money'; the expats here are generally classified as 'womanizer' and your girl may think you are one of them. You can't blame her for her concern that you merely want sex, so be patient with her and gd luck!
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There is nothing wrong with LKF. It is a place where expats congregate for general merriment.
Amusing that there are usually tour groups of mainlanders walking through LKF on a Friday night and snapping pics of people having a drink. Funny what some people call entertainment.
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rats
19 yrs ago
There wasn't any tour group of mainlanders back then... er...3 years ago...
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