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curiousgal
18 yrs ago
Just curious. I need reply from men.
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Maybe if they have performance issues or have a certain 'minuscule' problem. (that way it's better if there was no past comparison)
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if everybody would only looking for virgins then thye also wouldn't buy any second hand car.
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Whateva - suppose your wife had been sexually active before she met you and then came to a realization that true intimacy is needed for great sex and became celibate - would you have entered into a relationship with her?
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tia
18 yrs ago
HEH! Good one new30580!
A friend told me once that the fiddle tuned most often plays the sweetest music. Perhaps he was trying to get into my pants, but I would be loathe to get married to someone to find out that we were crap together in bed. I need a test run....or a thousand. :)
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practice mates perfect ;-)
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Most men who are 15-20 will go for any female who's willing to sleep with them. Will they marry them? Maybe but as men grow older, I think they get more choosy. Of course, it would give you pride and a feeling of confidence in your partner if he/she is choosy. I think it's probably reasonable to figure that if you take your age, divide it by 4, then that would be what most people would consider to be the absolute maximum # of partners they could consider reasonable, especially for a woman. For Example, if you are 20, then 5.If you are 40, then 10. Of course half of that would be considered more choosy than most.
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Seems that if u r virgin over a certain age, it's gonna be a problem.
But first sex really needs feelings, and has nothing to do with desair only.
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gwern
18 yrs ago
It's fascinating reading peoples opinions about virginity. I agree that a virgin of a certain age is going to happen. But older virgins?? I think it's an issue....Would I be concerned that a man I was going to sleep with was still a virgin over the age of 30? Yes I think I would be. I'm not advocating promiscuity but that's a bit of a worry...that and still living with his mother...These men who want virgins as wives..I'm assuming that you have also 'saved' your virginity for the wedding night? Or have you already played the field as 'it's ok for you?'You do know women have a vote these days don't you?
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I wouldnt care if a woman is a virgin or not.
Hold that for a moment, yes I would care, if she was over 30 and still a virgin then I would seriously question whether we were likely to be sexually compatible.
To me guys who are concerned about a woman not being a virgin are just lacking in confidence they are too worried she might have something to which she can compare there performance against.
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1/2/3 can equally apply to 99.9% of all non-virgins.
4 not all of us are christian but even accepting your body is a holy palace what relevance does that have to virginity.
5 again so what?
6 so?
Its nothing but a bunch of statements that are just as valid and true the day after you loose your virginity as the day before.
Loosing your virginity doesn't change you, you are still the same person, for good or bad.
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I think a man or woman who is still a virgin after late teens is not someone to have a relationship with -- my take!!! ;-)
Ed, I hope I am not banned for this!!
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the question itself is really funny...
but there r some countries in eastern europe as well that have kind of tradition, girls are virgins before marriage, most of times marriages work but not always i guess... its about how u feel about it.. doesnt matter what others think or say.
saving urself for someone spacial there is also nothing wrong with that as long as it doesn't take whole ur life to wait...
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gwern
18 yrs ago
Probuilder, are you a virgin saving yourself for your wedding night?? or are you a very insecure man who worries that a woman who has known other men will realise that you are a complete arse because she knows what a real man is like?
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I think virgin or not virgin is very much a religius issue also.
if you ask a musslim I am sure he will say it really matters.
for myself I could not care less how many guys she before. I think it may be a issue of selfconfidene for some guys, not have to be compared to other guys.
girls and guys, who are you to impress by saveing yourself, who will clap your head and say you better if not have sex for years and be virgin?? what will you prove?
if it feels good and you enjoy it, why should you NOT have sex? if someone cant accept you had sex before he/she is not worth you.
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very well said Naima
totaly agree
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Personally, I'm very, very turned OFF by women with little experience in sex. Even if they are perfectly willing to try new things, I don't like being the teacher. I want someone who knows what to do without me telling her.
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