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August18
19 yrs ago
i came home the other night and found my boyfriend of 6yrs had been chating to girls on webcams and porn , i feel really hurt and i cant stop thinking about it-want to hear from your opinons , am i just being stupid?and should i ignore it? or should i confront him on the matter?thanks
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If it makes you uncomfortable you need to talk to him about it. It is a type of infidelity, he may stop if he knows how bad it makes you feel. if he doesn't stop, then you may need to leave because he is not being faithful to you.
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suggest him that he should focus on sth else in life,not that web thing or p...
Good luck
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in all seriousness, wot do i do , we do sometimes look at porn together , i just hate the idea of him looking and chatting to girls when im not there- am i just being stupid??
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Hi Topgal,
I wouldn't get too upset about it. I know it's a small comfort, but men are just like that. Try to consider it as an innocent thing -as long no physical contact has been made...
Just to cheer you up a bit, I have this movie for. Hope you're not feeling too bad anymore after seeing this. Take care.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5430343841227974645
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Hey Topgal, don't loose heart. Nothing is wrong with you. This is an addiction. It needs to be treated. Like smoking, drugs, alchohol..this is an addiction. If it bothers you so much (and it should bother you) please talk to him and get him to see a clinical psychologist - not a shrink. Saying that he does that because he cannot get something from you is wrong. JUST get it treated. Before its too late!
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Thanks 2yr-hk for supporting my view that pornography is not an acceptable pastime if someone is uncomfortable with it.
I think all porn is degrading to the human being - male and female and takes sex down to a base level where it is not meant to be. The behaviour of talking with these women online indicates it is more than just voyerism - it is active participation which to me equals infidelity. How would anyone feel if their partner talked dirty to a workmate, a girlfriend, a friends teenage daughter - just because it is on the internet and anonymous doesn't make it right or better than in person.
Your BF needs help, and all men are not like that or participate in it - maybe men can be tempted to be like that but there are MANY men who have self control, and do not participate in this type of behaviour.
It denigrates women and the whole male female relationship dynamics.
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did u have ask him which site was it,,,,im a bit curious
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