i lost my bf

my bf we together in 2 months we talk a lot we be faithful and honest together.He went to travel for a weeks.I bump one our friends in the bar of course have a short chat with him.He told me my bf have a long time gf in philippines and he take with him in baley.I was surprised and shock i thought only me.So that evening i text him what i heard it.He said is not true.And im wondering he dont even say hi or email me his fine like that.Hes been staying for 3 weeks by himself.So i decide to go out of town to enjoy myself.And i told him finished is over.And few days later i received txt from him that he said i have a new man.I left my mbl. My landlord answer my phone.So i explain to him thats the owner of the flat were i am staying with my friends.Im argue with him that twist the word and accuse him his have gf.And he said should not listening to gossip.He feed up he said is over.And realize maybe is gozzip only.So i email to him i want back together but he refused.Now im bleaming myself i really like the guy very much.I have lots scorting but i dont interest.Pls can you advice me how can i convince to come back to me.

You cannot convince somebody to come back to you if they do not want to.


We have a saying in English "where there is smoke, there is fire".


Get over it, move on, keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy, and start spending time with other friends for a while. You will find somebody better.

Well, none of you took a chance to discuss, and it was such a short notice to say "breakup".So, i guess there was'nt any trust in the relationship.

So, move on!

...all this breakup because of mistrust & misunderstanding. If he really likes you he'll comeback himself but you can't force him to do so.