Posted by
tigerbay
16 yrs ago
You say you are thinking of the child, and healthy home life. I am not sure what you mean by healthy homelife.
If you mean stability, well it sounds like you do not feel you are in a stable relationship, and the child will pick up on these feelings as well.
If you are thinking about role models, then being a badly treated woman, and accepting of a selfish man is not a good thing for your child to see as normal behaviour.
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Agreed with all the above, Jackie, terrible model for your child to see unhappy parents (whoever is at fault) and completely agreed with cara, too! Divorce can be terrible for kids but an unhappy family life will do worse as it will be their model in life.
If you're unhappy and depressed, you will not be able to make your child happy and secure.
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I feel sad to read your story. It just reminds me of my mum's story. Yeah man are very selfish. My dad is just exactly the same. My mum has tried very had to please him just like you doing for your husband. However it still didn't work out as he didn't commit himself in the family and always want a divorce. so they did.
Growing up without a dad doesn't make any difference to me as mum has given me a good education (finished a master degree with honor), love and happiness. She's my best friend and my life.
Hope you can be strong and make the right decision for both your daughter and yourself.
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I do feel sorry to hear that. I agree with the ppl who post the msg. If a kid lives in unhappy family that is not good to the kid too. Maybe the kdi misunderstand all the guy are so bad and the woman sitll accept them... If you still to be with your husband, maybe one day you lose temper to your kid as I saw lots of similar case. Take care.
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I think it's better than you get a divorce and become a happier person. It's better for a child to have ONE happy and healthy parent than two unhappy arguing parents.
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