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thorn-bird
18 yrs ago
Guys I am not sure whether I am too conservative or he is too wild. The guy I quite like has too strong sex drive and he had done that in every occasion possible, such as on the flight, by the beach, in a restaurant etc...which is out of the limit of my understanding. I am not against healthy sexual life but I think that people have to control their behavior in certain places. Is he normal? Are all Americans like this?
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shaq
18 yrs ago
Oh, Mankind!!!! If the sex is good, trouble; if it's somewhere in between, trouble; if it is bad, trouble! What at all do we want ... :D?
Perhaps, it's the case that people do not meet their 'equals' in what they like or want. If that's so, then, I guess, the guy you have now is good, but he's just not for you, THORN-BIRD.
Yeah, go Americans (or is it AFRICAN-Americans ... :P; enlighten us)
ShaQ
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no he is white, cute, rich, funny...but I guess that we don't belong to the same world in terms of sex
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shaq
18 yrs ago
Go with the flow, my dear, go with the flow. Or, better still, get out because you can't cool what is on FIRE :D.
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He gets aroused all the time! And he is crazy about me now. However, the way I was raised makes it hard for me to understand how a person can have sex no matter where and when ... Shaq might be right he is wonderful but he needs to find someone as wild as he is.
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WOW!!!! LUCKY YOU!.....LOL!!
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ha ha I am not sure whether it is really luck or not
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Some people really get turned on by having sex in public, where they might get caught. According to one small survey, nationalities who admitted to do this were:
Norwegians 66%
Australians 64%
Greeks 60%
Swedes and Argentinians 55%
Germans 47%
Americans 21%
Canadians 15%
French 13%
If you are looking to join the Mile-High Club, wait till Virgin gets its "superjumbos" which will have private cabins featuring a sofa, washing facilities, and a double bed - all just for this reason.
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Claire, I love your list! Where did you get it from?
I don't think this has to do with sex drive, but sexual preferences. Some people are exhibitionists and love the thrill of (nearly) being caught. Others prefer to take it slow and sensual, with lots of time to tease and explore. Then there are those who love experimenation, variety and the swinging lifestyle.
At the end of the day, it's just a matter of finding someone with the same sexual click.
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Casper, it is not me. He did all that with his ex gfs or casual dates. But I suppose ... on airplane you do it in restrooms...same at restaurant probably or wherever it is dark
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jxxx
18 yrs ago
Hmm thorn-bird I guess it depends on what You are looking for in the relationship...and with him bragging along, you sure he's really into You, or juz really into Doing you?
Just a word of caution since you do seem a little confused as to 1) a guy whos into you + with a high sex drive, or simply 2) a guy who only wants fast and casual sex from you. No offence.
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lulu
18 yrs ago
hahah, i think people did have hand jobs or sex on the plane, but i have no idea on resturant...may be in rest room...may be it's just his fanatasies???
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jxxx, if he wants to do me, that is really a bad idea to tell me all about his sex adventures because I am having my second thoughts now. And, we haven't had sex yet.
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It is possible and quite easy to do it in a restaurant--
I used to manage a fine dining resto years ago. On one occasion, a couple (a politician with his young mistress) booked a function room on the 2nd floor for a romantic dinner for two.
After the main course was served, the guy requested that they not be disturbed. The waiters later told me that the couple started to grope each other and had a quickie. They were not disturbed as requested and left a huge tip (for making the restaurant into a motel).
I was quite young and naive at that time, and wasn't aware of any laws that they were breaking..
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lulu
18 yrs ago
thorn-bird, i think he actually did not do anything, he just buffing...think its just his fanatasies, men like to say they have strong sex drive and do it all night....
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Thorn-bird
When I first met my wife to be it was lots of sex (more than once per night). She (Chinese) thought too much sex was bad for you, but I always told her things would slow down. After several years of marriage, things have slowed down.
So don't worry,
Lulu is right, he is living out some fantasies. Mostly in his head. You may well be one of the sexiest women he has known, and he wants it all the time.
So just be careful it isn't just about sex.
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I think this guy is just bragging... I am not quite sure if he's really as smooth as he thinks he is... Why would you tell a girl that you are into about all these conquests?? Just impress her?? Or he thinks that will be a total turn on?? Not quite sure about that!!
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hello guys thank you all for your imput. Such talkings happened when we talked about our past...what is the wildest thing we both have done before etc....it was just casual talk. But my reaction to his adventures got him really anxious. He thinks that his confession would change my feelings for him and he tells me over and over that he would never push me to do anything that is humiliating to me. And he is willing to wait for sex when I am ready. I am glad that we talked about it. Now we are fine.
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I can't imagine a woman putting up with it ...slam bam thank you mamm ... What is in this for you? Do you Cum? some men force a climax whenever under pressure /anxiety ,and you think this is sexual attraction??? ... I'll bet he is really high strung .....
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Come on you guys, aren't you over reacting? Haven't you at some point discussed your sex life with people you've dated? And got shocked at some of what they've done before? It's just part and parcel of getting to know each other, not about being horny, desperate or whatever.
Aijin, you sound even more pushy than thornbird's boyfriend.
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Blaze, you make me feel better. That is what I thought. He is really charming and sweet altough he is quite naughty sometimes. . I don't think that he would have any problem getting girls. We have known each other about a month and start to feel close.
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blaze
18 yrs ago
thorn-bird, as long as he doesn't push you into sex or anything you're not comfortable with, things are fine :)
On a side note, maybe it's not such a good idea to discuss your sex life in detail in the future. I've gone on dates with men who told me they've been to prostitutes, participated in mass orgies, done some pretty sick stuff in bed etc.... and after that, I just didn't feel like going out with them anymore. I think it's only important to discuss the most basic stuff, and understand what gets him going now and just leave the past to...well, the past.
Your guy sounds sweet.... have fun with him and enjoy!
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Aijin, you're not dating thornbird. So lay off on when she should have sex ok?
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blaze
18 yrs ago
kfw, he's sweet because he respects thornbird enough not to push her into sex. I don't think we should assume that he was trying to brag or show off when he spoke of his sex life. Isn't it normal to talk about what turns us on with a potential partner?
Aijin, have you started checking out the site yet? You still seem very hung up about it.
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These days he keeps checking on whether I am still bothered by his wild past...He did those things in his 20s. He said he is in early 30s now and the wildness would ease down. He is really anxious that my feelings for him would have changed for this issue. He said that he was just open and wanted me to know everything about him,good or bad. He doesnt want to do anything that is offensive to me. I think that I will give him a chance to see what happens.
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Thornbird, I'm sure we've done wild things in our youths :) Don't worry about it.
Aijin, the wine cellar again. Poor girl, you just cannot get over it. Is it a bad time to mention that this man also offered me jewellery and a spa holiday?
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Hey, who's the one who always has to bring up "wine cellar"? Maybe the next time she's banned, she can come back as Ms Wine Cellar since she loves to bring up this phrase so much.
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ok just move on ...thanks all...
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blaze
18 yrs ago
kfw, women and some men tie themselves up into silly knots of anxiety because they overanalyze relationships. There's no need to think that much... because it's really that simple. Believe it or not. The bottomline is, she says no to sex and he respects it. Now he is even anxious that she wouldn't want him anymore. If he's in it only for the sex, he would have left long ago for an easier and more willing target.
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blaze
18 yrs ago
I'm very amused by the way you go round and round in your thinking. Ok whatever you say. I've given my 2 cents and I'm sure you're entitled to yours.
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blaze
18 yrs ago
Thanks I accept your apologies for trying to bait me :)
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ha ha guys enough about analysis and thank you all. I will just follow what my heart tells me. If he turns out to be a jerk, well next time I know what kind of men I shall shed from.
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What's wrong with wanking in church?
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