Curious....All these people who have been cheated on, has anyone felt like this?
Wished you never had found out your husband/wife was cheating? Or everyone preferes to know?
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Most people will tell you that they rather were told the truth. Then again, most people can't handle the truth.
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I prefer to know! But as txcowboy said is not easy to handle.
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I prefer not to know. I prefer he's smart enough to cover up everything so I can continue loving him happily every day. Otherwise, Disclosure will only lead to "Divorce", 100% for sure. All or nothing for me.
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Hmmmmm. Interesting views.
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If I am deeply in love with my husband and will feel empty without him and he treats me lovingly, I guess I would prefer not to know.
If I marry a man whom I thought would be a good husband and mutually take the marriage vows seriously and if he cheats, I would want to know as it would only be fair that I have the option to choose the next step either to stay or to leave.
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"the smart and practical husband would tell the "truth" by lying"
Please! The selfish, self-absorbed husband, who has no respect for his wife, would tell the 'truth' by lying.
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Rititt,
"the smart and practical husband would tell the "truth" by lying"
I think you made a typo. Should read "the practical husband would tell the "truth" by lying"....
I am guessing that everyone who ever cheated would tell you it was not a smart move?
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Hmmmm. Interesting.
Wonder if the cheating/lying husband has ever realised that in order for the wife to ask that question she has already felt something was a miss in the relationship already?
And one of the cause of this 'niggly' feeling that things are not right in the relationship is that the husband has had his attention/energy distracted by the third party?
...No matter how much/how well he thinks he has covered it up?
So for the husband/cheating party it feels like it is a long lasting and stable environment so his lie if 'constructive' but for the wife, it is a very slowly destructive/difficult painful, sandpit sinking feeling......and by finding out no matter how difficult or hurtful, at least she knows what she is battling? No?
Anyway, I digress from topic.
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