How to handle revenge ?



ORIGINAL POST
Posted by aaq 17 yrs ago
I got a question. I dare not fall in love now since I found some guys may like me, if I have no response, they revenge by attacking my work and life. For example, they may fail my exam and they may criticize my work quality, they make use any chances to attack me before my boss.


Do all men live like this? Can not get women then destroy them? Should I fight back? But how? Men is just a threatening specie! Or do women do the same?


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aaq 17 yrs ago
I mean I study on part-time basis and it seems I got one tutor’s attention. I did not response to him since I felt that he is playboy type. Then he attack me by grading( anyway I found way out and got pass rate). The other guy work in a ssociate company with my boss’s company. And again, he is interested in me. But he is a married guy, I would not response. Then he criticize all my work before my boss. See, it is some blokes’ actions. And I agree with you on not touching these examiners and workplace guys. But anyway, I have found way out. I just felt not fair to be attacked by these guys for no reasons! I should not have had suffered!

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aaq 17 yrs ago


I am not that pretty type. My look just makes people to feel comfortable and not threaten. That is the reason, occasionally; I got some people’s attention.


I think you raised very good questions. But I work hard and study hard. You know, people have sense. If you feel some thing wrong, something is not normal, as a result, then in most situations it is not normal. In most situation, if no one denies the same work and similar exam result before, some body did deny while, by incidentally, you have some disputes with them, it is natural to think they revenge on it.


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aaq 17 yrs ago
Pepermint,

No need to say sorry. I put my case here is for listening other voices and opinions since I only get myself, one idea.


I investigated the assessment process. It was the tutor himself to do the assessment. I could ask reviewing. But I did not.


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