money over character

Hi Everyone,


I (male) recently picked up an ad from a woman looking for men. However, her criteria made me somehow angry and wrote her my opinion regarding her ideal companionship and his requirements.

Pls read the first section from bottom down to top and give me your straight opinion.


thanks

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funny, why did I sensed that I expected such kind of an answere from you?

Don't take it personaly or think I'm targeting you. It's just funny how those kind of "species" like you try to argue and bend their "facts" until it fits to their wold.

Well, stereotypes, stereotypes. Now you are talking about the importance of relationship, the uniquenes and chemestry of individuals, sound relations, characteristics and blah blah. So, if so why didn't you placed those values in the first place but instead requesting superficial values, specific job title, financial situation, car brand etc etc.

Of course everyone has the right to set their benchmark and own criteria but you even didn't say what you really want (except for your material wishes)- do you want friendship or real relationship, marriage or whatsoever.

But, hey, for you a seems a Porsche much more important than the persons cahracter.

You say I'm not very mature? Maybe you're right. I don't have the experiance and matureness of being a coldblood Golddigger.

However, I may have not the right judge you. It always takes two to Tango. The other (lucky?) few guys should be old and mature enough and should know what they do.


And yes, I agree with you; you ABSOLUTLY know whay you want.


Anyway, good luck and happy hunting in your life. I'm sure you will find your prey soon.



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March 12/06 2:1PM


Thank you for your straightforwardness but sounds like you are not very mature and i guess you are for sure not the one i describe in my ad. Beauty really depends on people's appreciation and the most important thing in a sound relationship is not the outlook but a complex of all kinds of things such as characteristic, interests, chemicals, taste, etc. So among 160 qualified replies, excluding yours, i got, i only replied to a few of them. Everyone is unique. What can i offer really depends on whats in one's mind and is mutural. The difference between day dreaming and my case is that i know what i want and i just go for it. I will get it for sure one day though may not necessarily via this site. have a lovey day!


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March 11/06 9:13PM


unbelivable...


what makes you think you can get all this? Those kind of guys can get evey women in this world.

What can you offer: mid 20's (means 28), 160- not the right photomodel size. 45kg- for a 160cm? Pretty face (pretty only?! Like other 5 mio. BJ girls here)

Get real. What you will get is what you can give. And that is not much so far. So stop dreaming, baby.



Answer only if you are...

Managing Director, single legally and emotionally, 32-42 yrs old, sense of humor with taste, appreciates art, antique and wine, passionate for sport and fancy cars like Porsche and owns one or alike, masters at least two languages, likes adventure and travel, not BALD and too BOLD, good teeth and sweet smile and beautiful eyes, at least 170cm of height, dress well and appropriately with sense of fashion and quality not blind brand seeker, gentle... Me: in 20s, 160/45kg, witty, funny but not too smart, pretty face and very fit figure, leave the rest for you to explore after your reply with your recent photo Isn't life a box of chocolate?


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Answer only if you are...

Managing Director, single legally and emotionally, 32-42 yrs old, sense of humor with taste, appreciates art, antique and wine, passionate for sport and fancy cars like Porsche and owns one or alike, masters at least two languages, likes adventure and travel, not BALD and too BOLD, good teeth and sweet smile and beautiful eyes, at least 170cm of height, dress well and appropriately with sense of fashion and quality not blind brand seeker, gentle...


Me: in 20s, 160/45kg, witty, funny but not too smart, pretty face and very fit figure, leave the rest for you to explore after your reply with your recent photo


Isn't life a box of chocolate?

rouge i saw that ad! it was one of the first i read and i was a bit shocked. but then again, you know someone will answer that ad.

aqquarian- what makes you think there will be someone answer such an ad?


rouge- how so? she clearly stated she want a non-sexual sponsor...

rouge- ok. Maybe you should and teach us women to be wiser ;)


It is amazing how the personals can be so shameless.

ah berrypicker, i love your strategy!


rats, there is always someone wierd enough to want to be dominated, taken for a ride, treated like a human wallet...strange as it seems I bet she got heaps of responses!

China has a very high (if not world's highest) suicide rate among rural women (and urban youth too).

Anyway, I agree with BP though- let her be!

hey rouge - she got 160 'qualified responses', no shortage of strange guys in singapore! Or, maybe they have humanitarian motivations as BP and Redorange point out. There are worse things than asking for what you want :)

aqquarian- maybe they are just curious as rouge and want to see her response. They can be anthropologist, psychologist or even social workers, trying to understand this werd mind of hers :)

knoway!- dont misunderstood, she needs a non-sexual sponsor, with pimp, sex is involoved :P


berrypicker- lol :) at least as someone playful , i would seriously consider replying her post and see how she reacts.

lol, we all want to have a sponsor like that, with no attachment and no conditions. Is there really free-lunch in this world?

so it is not a 'free-lunch' as I have the obligation to listen to your auntie's endless stories.....

haha, berry, what makes you think i am not one of the weirdos? :P

berry- you was desperate and not anymore? well, i am sure you are glad that you didn't take any serious action about finding a old man as your sponsor. :)

doesnt that gal has the freedom to post whatever ad she wants?

if you are not intersted then just leave her alone, and let her live in her little dream. it harms her, not you.

Coming back to the ad of the girl in veedubb post. I found it cool. We don't know if it was her poll or not. It's a virtual world after all, so what we put in here does not necessarily mean exactly what we want to say or do.


I'm more curious about how she replied to the few she mentioned.

The Bear- thanks! I take it as a compliment... lol


wildorchid- it would be interesting to know as well.


arethusas- a dream that has no possiblity to come true is just an illusion, not a real dream. And her dream is definitely not 'little' ;)

rats - that's why we call it dream! and it just involve her and her only, how "little" the circle is!