Posted by
sexyboop
12 yrs ago
Read some more posts in this forum and you will find your case is not the worst and you are not alone. At least they give you a good laugh.
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He might be busy with work - how long since he called ? He might call you back in a afew days.
But, assuming the worst - better to find out after one date than invest years of your life with some guy who turns out to be married / closet gay / never going to marry.
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Nah, if he likes you, he would have called.
Sorry, he just wanted the easy lay, he got it, now its over. Move on.
Don't put out unless you are sure of things in the future.
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Well, then just chalk it up to having had the luck of a good lay. That is that.
And don't bother calling him. If he was interested he would have called you.
If he calls you again and its been several days or weeks, don't bother meeting him again or taking the call, not unless you want to be the booty call.
All that bs about "This is the modern day, if you fancy him, call him!"
Don't. It only makes you look desperate. If a man wanted you for real, he wouldn't let time tick by without making the effort to call you.
As I said, chalk it up to "I had a good lay" and move on.
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Sid_1, if a woman who has such a low level of self-esteem (see all those questions asked in the original post) merely because he didn't hear from the guy again after sex, how would you expect her to have reasonable level of confidence to call him up?
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Sid_1 you seem to be more interested in the explicit detials of the OP's sexual encounter than actually helping her. When you wrote: "So you had sex in his place".. were you typing with one hand?
Agree with the others.. he would have called if he was interested. Don't let this give you low self-esteem and make you insecure.. its one of lifes experiences.. one that you need to go through to learn from. You'll make better judgemetns and decisions in the future as a result of this.. and in hind sight you'll see it much differently.
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"he said: come to see me everyday.." it sounds like what my boss says to me, LOL....Women!! don't take what guys said to you seriously, especially in bed, they may not necessarily lie to you or what, but all that nice words probably would have been put out of his mind at the moment while he's getting out of bed.
Sid_1, hmmmm perhaps the sex was not as great as men always think they had delivered?
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Or perhaps although the sex was "awesome!" for OP, it was not so awesome for the guy. Evinced by his not contacting her since despite his sweet words "come to see me everyday".
Sounds like it is time to move on and savour the memory.
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OP, you need to move on. it's only a one night stand anyway. be wiser in the future, name the price before you get laid, then he wont say 'come to see me everyday'. in fact he will give you a call when the sex was awesome for HIM!!! get him to exchange business cards with you to make sure he knows your number
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is there anyone else who feels that maggie hearn is coming back on this forum and messes up with the posts. that pathetic wo'man', the drama queen whose life is a zero, never stop asking questions like 'what if ...?, what does it mean? why doesn't he call? does women mean nothing anymore? etc etc etc
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Songyu - we need people to keep posting. This forum would be dead if everyone was happily married
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CapDave, I am sure people can share their happiness in this forum too :))
I agree with Songyu, we have a lot of weird thread lately to amuse us...
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why cant she call him
its the year 2012 women go after what they want we dont have to be passive !
if not him find another
good luck
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This is why:
http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/dont-initiate-contact.html
Its pretty cut and dried. Really.
Actions, not words.
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dont bother to call him, move on. if he calls reject him...in my opinion you are too good for him.
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be happy u got laid and move on ..
no harm done .. and hopefuly u had some good sex as result (though for some reson i doubt it)
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or... another option is to stalk him... MEN LOVE THAT !
find out info about him..
make friends with his friends and when talking reefer to him as "
post in public places like Facebook testimonies to the amazing bond you share
its never too early to plan a wedding... send his mother photos of flower arrangements you like and tell her her dress has to match the colors .(start calling her mother)
he would love if you call his place of work as often as possible it will show his colleges how lucky and love he is...
and dont forget to tell anyone .... how despite his erected disfunction problem he is very much a man and only a man like him can pull off the matching pink lace underwear he like so much ...
do all that and he will call you back for sure !
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As I have one of these illusive happy marriages, I think I have a right to give relationship advice.
My darling husband was a one night stand, 9 years ago, and it worked out for us but thats not the case for everyone. I think that if you are adult enough to have sex you should be adult enough to understand that it won't always lead to something more.
Of course, in an ideal world we would all get what we want. Sex is fun.
I also think that there are some women out there who enjoy making themselves miserable, sitting around for one man to call them and the berating themselves when he doesn't. When my husband didn't call straight away after our first date, I went on a few dates with some other men. I did really like my husband but I wasn't going to wait around for someone who wasn't interested.
Btw, when my husband didn't call me after our first date, I called him and he was really glad that I did because he'd dropped his phone in a puddle and broken it.
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