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tig
18 yrs ago
I guess people change. Maybe he will want to stay with you and pop the question later on.
I spoke to my bf about this when we first hooked up and got that sorted. I guess we talked about it before we started dating.
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the ball is in your court. he has told you he is not the marrying kind. whether he means you specifically or marriage in general does not matter. you must decide: can you accept that, or will you move on? you should be with a partner who at least shares your views on marriage.
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If you guys feel happy and get together, it doesn't a matter whether you are marrige or not! The world changes everyday!
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tia
18 yrs ago
I always viewed marriage as a take it or leave it sort of option. My husband said he would never get married...and we got married a week ago.
I think that some men view it as a loss of their freedom, their fun and therefore, do not wish to be tied down. Others think it is not necessary as a way to show their eternal love for their partner.
Talk to him about it. If marrage is THAT important to you and he does not agree, you may need to take a good look at things.
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PB's earlier words are harsh but may be accurate.
Sometimes, and I'm not saying that this is that time, a man will say 'I wouldn't like to get married ever' may mean 'I wouldn't like to get married ever to you.' He may Love you, enjoy you, and all that but, for whatever reason, you may not fit his model wife.
Best to ask him directly about this.
Of course, it is also possible that he means exactly what he seems to be saying 'I wouldn't like to get married ever, to ANYONE.'
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trix
18 yrs ago
Men either marry when they're ready to or when they've met the right woman. Nothing you do can change either condition. If he's already said no, don't waste any more of your time. A man has to be at least open to the idea if anything is to happen.
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Ok, well for me, I think that when one is over 24, it is usual to have a "what are your plans for the future" kind of conversation somewhere in the first few dates if you are getting long well.
Beware though, it can be an acid test - something is either destroyed or it perfectly survives the test... like a genuine piece of gold dropped into acid.
Some men (especially, but not always, those with no long term intentions) may run away at the mention of those words.
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