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Ed
14 yrs ago
http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/01/26/is-forgiving-your-spouse-ruining-your-marriage/
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I married for 20+ yrs. recently my wife asked to leave me because she could not tolerant my negative behavior any more. I believe that I have been demonstated big improvement over past 3 yrs, when she began to complain for my negative behavior.
I consulted psychologist and social worker in order to rescue the relationship. Now, she becomes extremely inconsiderate. When I ask why she treats me so badly. Her answer is 'it is you who make me so bad'. 'You have suffered for only several months, but I suffered you for over 20 yrs'.
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Happyman...go with your wife to counseling. Both of you need a bit of a 'new start' and an upgrade in your communication skills.
A 20+ marriage is often worth keeping rather than starting all over again...and especially so if there wasn't a 3rd party involved.
I left a 20 year marriage (cheating was involved), but let me tell you...it's not easy out there. I did eventually found someone I love very much, but it took me 10 years of dating and being in relationships that were ok, but did not inspire me.
It actually not that hard to find someone new, but it's not easy to find someone that makes you tick!
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