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funcgkw
19 yrs ago
just that, what makes you happy?
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shaq
19 yrs ago
Somebody seeing what is in me and what I can do, NOT where I come from or my background. In other words, to be judged on the basis of my character, NOT by my culture, race, history, or religion.
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Someone once told me that happiness is a state of mind.
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very true, freshjive, and i totally agree. but i'm afraid it's not a destination once and for all. we have to keep trying to get there.
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shaq
19 yrs ago
Let's be real. Something comes from something. Happiness comes from something satisfying (whether noble or not). Happiness without reason is madness.
We live in a real world and things/events/etc. that make us happy or sad are inspired on real life situations... period.
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Hmmm, all very philosophical.
I prefer the simpler approach. The things that make me happy are: winning a match, shopping, staying bed late, getting a foot massage...the list is endless.
Shallow and superficial? Probably, but at least I'm happy and not whittering on about 'illusions' and 'destinations'.
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shaq
19 yrs ago
... what about taking control and finding your own happiness? (from Pumpkin)... ... see, happiness has to be sought after by oneself as you agree.
I agree, no one is responsible for your happiness. But if we do not consider others' happiness in the pursuit of our own, there will be chaos in this world of ours. Once again, let me say this, 'We live in a real world and things/events/etc. that make us happy or sad are inspired on real life situations... period'. :D
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Shaq - The first comment reminded me of a scene from Jerry Maguire.
Quote: "I love him for the man for who he is and the man he wants to be. " Unquote.
The Bear - So you believe in paying it forward?
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Vulvic - You forgot your Fendi Spy Bag!! :D
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If all animals will be treated with respect and understanding, that will make me really happy.
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It doesnt always involve a return. You pay it forward so that the kindness will be pass on. Merry Xmas!
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A chicken and mushroom pot noodle and fresh french bread always puts a smile on my face and makes me feel real happy.
A man i love buying me flowers and buying presents perfect presents for the people i love (rarely done though cos thats a task and a half)
Giving money to charity or someone in the street who looks like they really need it.
Doing a job and knowing ive done it real well.
Knowing people around me see the real me and love me because I am special.
Im at my happiest when i see i have made others happy, and i guess that is how it should be! ahhhh
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ahh The bear :) Your wonderful comments make me happy!
Maybe we can meet tonight and sip that Baileys and laugh and be really happy around the Christmas tree with a pot noodle, some beggers, a box of Swiss chocs and you can bring me some flowers and i'll just act real special all night! oooh plus bring all your family and i'll bring mine but i will tell them not to argue...oooh what bliss! LOL
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okay! Any chance of you getting a flight from Beijing to Leeds tonight? I can meet you at the airport and give you alift back there tomorrow ?
Or perhaps i should come there on my private jet this once! Hey call my mobile and we'll sort it
x
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watching the man i love sleep like a baby
and someone to give me a long heart-warming hug
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when im talking to someone and i can notice for once that im not talking sh*t and the person im chatting to is actually on my level and is digesting what i say.....again its rare but its a real nice feeling that makes me happy!
1 more sorry! ....when you wak into a classroom, as a teacher and your pupils sit attentively awaiting your instructions etc....looking at you with pure respect and excitment....eyes wide and happy little cherubs....again...thats what life is really about....warm, sensual and loving feelings make you happy. Bar of choc also does the same job sometimes...lol
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It is! And the wise words of Pumpkin, Vulvic and Dorris inspire me to think that there are a lot nicer people out there than I imagined....
I like finding happiness out of the simple things especially 'firsts'. It happens to me all the time! The other night I met my first ever person from "Azerbaijan" and "Eygypt" for that matter. I was the happiest little soul there!...
Of course it's a state of mind and we all need things to go badly once in a while so that we know happiness when it approaches.
My lovely old next door neighbour said to me earlier this month "happiness walks in a door you forgot you'd left open".
Happy New Year to you all! xxxxx
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