big city flue: unable to love you infected?



ORIGINAL POST
Posted by whitecatbj 17 yrs ago
do you feel more and more difficult to fall in love when you get elder and elder? even unable to fall in love

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Meems 17 yrs ago
Think it was more the "lust" when we're younger. Realized that Love is an illusion, now that we're older and wiser.

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Joanne123 17 yrs ago
I don't think it's difficult to fall in love, but difficult to find someone whom you can love.

As we're older, we know more and more what we want, and perhaps therefore, we tend to not want to compromise.

When you are willing to compromise, the other party does not, although they want you too.

Sad ...

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purplestar 17 yrs ago
Maybe sometimes when the people get older, they belive their experience too much. I think it's ok to take a risk to try again as even though you spreate, you have a good time already, right?

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zonked 17 yrs ago
you can't choose to fall in love... it happens -- when you least expect it or even want it!


Yes, it is definitely true that as you grow older your expectations increase, as you know exactly what you want in life and in a relationship, and the ability to compromise reduces.


But then being too rational isn't love either....

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ador 17 yrs ago
everyone is just finding love in an unloving world. Even i'm just 20sth.

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trix 17 yrs ago
What is this rush to fall in love? Relationships take time to develop. The faster it starts, the faster it crashes and burns.

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whitecatbj 17 yrs ago
i can like, like lots, very like. but un able to love. feel can not give my heart to someone again

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ador 17 yrs ago
Well, shouldn't it be hard to fall in love and get it in return at the same time?


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shirley321 17 yrs ago
In my opinion, in some degree, to love someone means to admire him/her because of his/her highlights. But when we are getting older and older, we know more and more about the world, and it seems new of people can be admired by us, in other word, attract us!

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whitecatbj 17 yrs ago
to me i met men disappointed me again and again, so i lost my passion of love, maybe the heart is tired, maybe more selfish............

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whitecatbj 17 yrs ago
thanks candice bilove


i will try to find this book :)

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