ladies ladies ladies..only

I read so many posts by these depserate women and I cant stop thinking, dump the man.


Get a grip girls, go by your gut feeling, if it feels 'wrong' and you are coming onto a forum to ask if there is a problem, chances are it probably IS wrong.


The standards for the way you are treated are in YOUR control. Get a grip.


Do you really need an oprah special to point out when someone is doing you wrong?

IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN.


Women think they can change men. They think themselves in the middle of little romantic comedies and, at the end, the guy who said would never marry her will hide a diamond ring in a hamburguer. As long as we guys know how to play, pretending to be that guy, women are at the short end of the stick.


And unfortunately, honest guys are...well, boring.


Nope, I don't think there will be a short supply of "native" women anytime soon. I mean, it has been that way for the last 10 years (at least for me) so I don't expect changes anytime soon.

I don't think it has anything to do with height but with charisma.


The problem is that in our pussified 21th century western world men are educated to live and think as if women were better than us instead of our equals. On the first date a guy starts as someone not to be trusted and he has to prove he is a good guy before he can get intimate with the girl. The girl chooses and controls the relationship. Guy has to buy presents, pay for dinners, etc. However, women do have jobs as careers and the same opportunities than us.


What I mean is, western women enjoy the perks associated to traditional women (open doors, ladies' night, free lunches) but won't do the tasks associated with women (doll the socks, cook, etc).


NOT THAT I WANT THEM TO. I am all for equality, but women can not demand equality and then expect me to pay the bill. However, we do. And we men get screwed beyond belief in divorce courts because the law is made with the traditional woman (housewife, no career) in mind. Then it was fair for a man to support the wife if he got divorced. Today is not.


We men can't fight the system. The law won't change anytime soon, so what we do is vote with our feet. When we come to Asia and realize that here, IN GENERAL, women talk like women, dress like women and behave like women, WE ARE IN. We dump our girlfriends and wives and dive right it!


In my case, I happily threw down the drain a 5 years relationship.


Today I exercise my right never to take seriously any western woman, including ABCs. Its simply not worth the risk, EVEN if she look cool...there are so many of them...Would I date them? Yeah! Would I fool around with them? Sure. Would I marry them? Not in a million years.


There are women who will allow me to treat them the way I like, and there are women with a lot of attitude. I choose to have a woman in my side who doesn't complain, cajole, nag, threat, or put on 20lbs after marriage because she is now in a "comfort zone".


Men, vote wih your feet. With this huge amount of young, single, willing women, why would you take anyone who demands anything if you can have someone who will do what you want?

So TX, what's in it for the young single willing women? Are you that big of a catch?


If God forbid, you do get hitched are you going to divorce your wife if she dares to

"cajole, nag, threat, or put on 20lbs after marriage because she is now in a "comfort zone"?

"Perception is reality". Rolling Stones.


Single young willing women are in for the excitement. This I have. Some of them are in to catch a big fish. I create the illusion that they might have the chance to catch the fish. And nope, money is not needed. Neither are looks. All that you need is confidence and say the right things at the right time. And since most women look for the same hollywood character, it is quite easy to figure out the right words to unlock the panties.

Ahh so you are a young willing women's whisperer of sorts.

Let's see.


Esoteric: "I disagree that they don't complain, cajole, nag or threaten".


I agree with you. Sorry if I wasn't clear on this point. I don't take complain, cajole, nag or threats from nobody (western or asian), unless that I am getting well paid to so do. The thing is, Asians do that in way little numbers.


"I find the 'create the illusion to unlock the panties' routine distasteful but if you lack in other departments you have to use what you can right"


What is the relationship between the two? Was that suppose to be a remark about my sexual prowess? Do you know me?


In any case, is that your comeback to my argument? I guess not. If you had a comeback to my argument you wouldn't resort to primary school comments.


"the Asian girls are creating an illusion to unlock the wallet so fair play to ya"


Did you understand what I was writing AT ALL? Oh wait, you tried to use my own words to make a funny remark, is that? Well, in that case, you should write "Asian girls create the illusion that they love you, TXCowboy, in order to attempt to get your money". See? Now that would be a nice comeback...too bad you missed it.


But it doesn't matter because the whole point of creating illusions is not making them into realities. Nope, I don't to give any money because these girls will "invest" in "future gainings". In other words, playing "human clock" with me (I will tell you what it means in private) hoping to score the house with the white fence and the mixed babies.


"if you had the maturity to face the 'nagging' of a western woman you may find out that you aren't especially perfect and can grow and learn something about yourself"


Maturity? Would you call hurting youself on purpose "being mature"? You see, why would I get someone who nags at me if I can get someone "obedient"...


*oh my god, look what he said! Hurry up! Burn the bras*


"At work do you prefer to employ a brown-nosing yes man or someone who can challenge your ideas and methods and make the business stronger and more profitable?"


At work, sure. But I am not at work. I am in the search of the shortest distance between two points. In my personal life I only look for happiness and, once more, I am not into "sacrifice" or "commitment" or "maturity" in the feminazi sense.


Would you choose to drive a car that causes you problems all the time, or to drive a car that do exactly what you want?...and the beauty of it is that when it doesn't, you get a new car.


Loyd Grossman. No, I am not a 15yo boy from HK. I am a grown man. But you sure act like you were raised by a single mother. And now that we have exchange funny remarks, how about try to debunk/agree with my points, or post your own?

I've removed some comments and suspended two accounts - please dont insult other members or post profanity on the forums. Thanks

"you have to resort to other means such as false promises"


This is an interesting point. In all fairness I admit I did use false promises to get laid, but not because I lacked other skills but because it was faster to get what I wanted. Sometimes you are simply not in the mood to be charming.


Today I don't do false promises because I've found a better formula: I pick battles I know I will win. For instance, I prefer women in their late 20s because they are in the hunt for a husband, and thus too hurried to pick up the signals that I am not good. Also, I don't lie but I don't answer certain questions.

Am I looking for marriage? Well, I might. (which is true).

Would you like to have children in the future? I am open to that (which is true).

Is this a booty call or will you be serious with me? Well, is too early to say. I am exploring the possibility...


No lies needed :)..."perception is reality"