Posted by
ihc
19 yrs ago
I have met a guy who visits HK maybe a few times a year. During his last visit, we had great time together "drinks & chat only" and then we stay in touch by email. I don't know how to describe this kind of relationship but just feel like we both have the intention to move forward to see how it goes. A few days back, he told me his schedule & suggested me to stay at his hotel if convenient so that we could go for a short trip the day after. Is it weird or I have thought too much? I don't know how to reply, I really like him though. Would someone give me advice... please...
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ihc
19 yrs ago
I know some guys who travel to Asia for biz are just looking for company & sex. Am I too pessimistic?
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It's obvious that he wants to move "forward". It could be either to a serious or "not so serious" direction. I interprete his suggestion as "I want to have sex with you". Only you can judge it based on all the communication you have with him so far.
It's not weird from the guy's side.
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It is obvious that he is having 'sex' on his mind. But that's fine if you're up to it as well.
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ihc - how do you know he is not already married? perhaps answer dear_chrissie's questions first.
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Whether you stay in with him for that night. Things will not happen if you dont want to. IF, provided he is as wonderful as you mentioned.
Lets say you stay over and rejected to have sex and he loses interest then the answer is obvious. If he is still interested, then likely he is on the same page as you.
If you are not comfortable in staying over, then you should take tuttifrutti's advice.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
Simple, if you ready for a fling, go and stay.
If you do not want it and would like to have serious relationship, reject him nicely and see what he says. Men are very simple, only women are too complicated.
Long distance relationship doesnt work very often, trust me. Ocassional flings when he visit works more this way....
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Terrible advice above!
It is clear that he wants her to stay for the purpose of sex. If she does agree to stay, he will assume that she is adult enough to know the score and will be expecting rumpy-pumpy.
It would be best to tell him that she'll meet him early the next morning for their 'trip'. Very simple and no need to offend anyone's sensibilities.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
it ok lah, if ich really like this guy and do not mind to bear the risk of having sex with him that night, she sure can stay. This time she might not stay but there might be more "short trips" in coming months,right?! sooner or later she need to make a decision.
But ich, if you think you will regret, better leave early before being sorry. These travelling guys think differently, they think sex is a social thing and he doesnt need to love you, he might just like you or want to show you that he do not mind you to stay around!!
Take thing easy, decision is on your hands.
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