Posted by
emma_lai
19 yrs ago
Just want to find out if girlfriends among themselves will be jealous of each other, even lifelong friends known from high schools.
Whenever I was after by good looking guys who thought I looked pretty, charming and young. My gfs will be jealous and tried to tell me that they chased me because these guys can't get young and pretty girls, and I'm old and easy to get. But I just think if they are handsome guys, how will it be difficult to get young and pretty girls in exchange of old and ugly ones?
As friends, are they too cruel to me by saying this?
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No need to bother if you don't believe what she said is truth unless you believe....
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ask yourself what matters more: what jealousy girls are telling you or the fact that handsome guys are after you?
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Jealousy when you saw your gf making something is really not good.
Like that in my speed date, I would sometimes be curious how my gf who is really physically not too appealing to opposite sex could attract attention of the "best" looking one among all ("best" here mean under no competiton among all other 9 ugly guys out of the 10;). But I still said good things to her. Afterall as you said, everyone sees things differently.
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From what you guys said, I won't think her as a good friend of mine. Friends must be supportive to each other.
I decide to alienate from her. I didn't pick up her calls any more.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
well, i think this happens to girls a lot, especially within hong kong girls. Luckily, I do not feel this way cos most of my friends "Targets" are different from me, for example, they are very much into younger local guys and that is not really my cup of tea.
Moreover, I also a good few year older than them so i never really bother with what guys that they hanging out with. But afterall, i think i will not get jealous of any of my girlfriends to get attraction from guys cos I should be happy for them. To be honest, I am not too keen on meeting guys anymore, so i usually pretty fold up and feeling nothing, just enjoying myself.
I just think if this kind of jealousy among friends ruin the friendship, it's not worth it at all. Treasure friendship rather than passer-bys, especially men. Emma, try to talk to you friend and let her know.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
knowway! >It's just people in here always think I am desperate for men or something, that makes me sick. Whenever someone posting anything relating to "no relationship, or no boyfriends" they always think its me, or think me in disguse of "someone".
Anyway, back to the topic, I think sometime not really emma's girlfriends jealous of her, it might be the emma herself are too sensitive about people's conversation. May be the friend does not mean that way at all.
that's why so many rumours, arguement and gossips came along.
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