i would say it's important but not the reason to leave a relationship if once get bored. The problem is you haven't girl that want to settle down(i guess).
In my opinion if a guy always give you suprise and non stop excitment,it may not be a good sign because he is not yet want to settle down either. i would prefer a relationship going nice and easy share life forever not a short term excitment.
Please support our advertisers:
I agree with Karen Y, 'desperation is a repellant', especially in the early stages of relationships. But the bottom line is that the girls looking for excitement are just not ready for the long term commitment that you are after.
This may well have to do with the places you hang out, or the way you are attracting the girls in the first place.
Also, if you make the first dates too exciting and OTT to make her feel special, then I guess as time wears on , if you don't keep to the 'high standards and excitement' levels (which is a challenge to say the least!), then your girl will feel that the following dates are kind of disappointing, hence their reasons to 'go' elsewhere.
Anyhow what Mr. HK says is all true, take some of the advice given. Love is truly a 'game', I am sure you will win, it is just finding the correct opponent! Good Luck!
Please support our advertisers:
I think there could be many many reasons behind it. Essentially, the repetitive pattern is in my opinion the most significant and interesting for you. It probably indicates, as a kind of signal, that there is something that you need to understand about yourself. Whether it is the choices you make, your expectations, how you present yourself, etc... So it's a great opportunity to try to learn more about yourself, now that you're questioning it.
Personnally I find it hard to be more specific, as really it could be related to anything!
But a "good man" is of major interest to lots of women. For some, it only becomes interesting at some point in their lives, when comes a genuine desire to be constructive. That's why it could, as an example, be related to the level of maturity (not necessarily age) reached by the women you usually go for.
Perhaps you should try to see where lie the common traits of all these stories.
Good luck!
Please support our advertisers:
You will find Hong Kong so lovely and dont want to leave.
Have fun.
Please support our advertisers:
I must say, i'm a bit surprised with some of the responses here.
on the one hand most girls here complain that guys are not serious enough, and here you go on about saying things like that "Keep it light and don't mention early on that you want something serious - desperation is a repellant. Present yourself as a limited edition".
Come on, make up your minds already.
I for one find it refreshing to "find" a guy coming out clean about his intentions.
Please support our advertisers:
i've got few friends who are into serious relationships and some who just want to have fun because most of the men they meet in bars/clubs want the same...we cant just put everyone in one category...either be fun or commitment!
"how important is it to feel excitement when you meet a guy?"-it is fairly important!...we always have the "honeymoon" period at the beginning but it wont last forever!..but by the time that period is over, you will realise whether you really love that person and want to be with her/him for the rest of your life.
Please support our advertisers:
You must be logged in to be able to reply.
Login now
Copy Link
Facebook
Gmail
Mail