Neglected emtionally

Hi to all,


Eversince my boyfriend has been very tight up with work, our relationship has gone down hill.


Nowadays our conversation is only about his work. By the time I have the chance to share about my day , he said he is too tired and wanting some rest. He ask me to be understanding towards this matter and I did. A few weeks had passed and he is still the same. Now I am left with emotional emptiness and am begining to resent him.


Everytime when we talk over the phone, he would always be easily distracted with either the TV programme , mails or some other things. Many a times he will interupte and cut off my sentences that I felt was rude .Why can't he just give me that 5 MINUTES of attention ???


Now I resent talking to him and that I told him to only calll me when he is totally free .


In fact , I rather not talk to him anymore.


This is a serious issue to me as I felt I am emtionally neglected .


Please to friends out there, kindly give me some advice . Thanks .

You have the same problem with my GF. I am not blaming you but I can only say one thing....TRY TO UNDERSTAND AND DISCUSS THIS ISSUE TO HIM.


Maybe he's trying to save more for your future. Look at the bright side. Good luck!


Stay with him if you still love him. Pull each other up.

Hii friends,

Thank you so much for the comment and feedbacks . Out of 4 people here, 3 advise me to dump my bf...


I have expressed my concern to him yesterday . Both of us had a short chat just now and i can feel that he is trying to improve.


Anyway I will have to talk to him seriously over the weekend and hope things will resolve.


But I still find that he should not be always atlking about himself . Thanks you guys for the feedbacks !

Is there anything about you or your day that will interest or stimulate him to get into a conversation with you?


I have friends who bore their husbands with incessant blab about household chores or complaints about people around her. Most times without consideration that husband want some down time after a gruelling day at work.


Sometimes, and this works for us, I ignore my husband because I know when he needs me to be quiet and when to chat me up.

i had gone through a similiar situation. i sat and talked to him abt it.fortunately hez now perfect cuz he felt bad.if he doesnt improve, dump. if he makes an effort and improves, stay. as much as u think abt his needs, you have to think abt urs too. Thats why we have WEEKENDS! so see how is towards u then.