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cym
18 yrs ago
i was dating my childhood friend on and off since 2 years.Even though we both had other relations we always got back to each other.Suddenly he decided to end it as he felt we had no communication.But I felt we did and I wanted to continue.Infact that fateful day he said what he did ,was when i was a lil tired and was not talking much to him.He has decided to complete cut off now and has said he doesnt want to keep in touch forever.He is not talking /communicating at all with me.I have tried to call him and txt him he simply refuses to communicate back.I am really upset and low.I miss our friendship and specially so that we were childhood friends and neighbours and our families know each other too.But his brutal statement that he doesnt want to ever keep in touch with me ever and ever is hurting me!What shall i do .Have tried communicating with him but to no avail!!
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cym
18 yrs ago
Thanks for the advise.But I dont think he is pissed off ,he just felt we dont have any communication based on the time we last met.I feel knowing his nature he wont call me or see me ever.He is that kind.So the loss is killing me.Of course I wont call him again but i know i wont be bumping into him too as we never bump into each other unless we plan to.I miss him terribly and wake up each day feeling crap...O god its painful.
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cym
18 yrs ago
plastic buddha-Why do u think I was the one who didnt care for him and he wasnt the shoulder to cry on guy for me.He had a girl friend most of the time and i was the one waiting around.When i had a boy friend i told him and my boy friend was not as serious as his girl friend.
I did write to him one last time and said hey lets talk and not be so immature blah blah...But still silence.I reckon if he cant even care how Im doing now though i m in so much pain and loss I have no choice..Y know life is so unfair so unfair..I havent harmed a soul and i m always getting the worse end of the story.Sux!
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cym
18 yrs ago
Thanks for your advise .Appreciate it...But for me he was true love and my childhood love.I grew up with him and had a crush on him even when i was young.But he never saw through that and my enduring love.He just cut me out.Its painful but life is ufair .Huh!!Its tough waking up to no calls and sms s .Friends i dont want to bother.They have been there for me already.xx.I have to get it on on my own.I wish I could join a national geographic team and move from place to place travelling and capturing the scenic nature on my lens instead of sitting around in this city and feeling sad.
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mmy88
18 yrs ago
Plastic Buddha, I agree with you...
Cym, sad truth is, knowing how you feel, and although he treasures your friendship, maybe he's just not ready to take responsibilities for your feelings...and it's probably painful for him as well, if he was a jerk, he'll probably drag you on, but since he still cares for you, maybe that's why he lets you go...I'm sure he wants you to be happy and live a little...without him...
Haven't you ever heard that if you love something, let it go, if it comes back, then it's meant to be!
Sometimes, an independant person is a lot more attractive than someone who always needs a shoulder to cry on, and when he realizes that you can live without him, then he'll think twice..
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cym
18 yrs ago
who knows if he will realise that im doing ok without him .The sad part is tht we live in diffrent cities now and though i go to his city twice a month.We will never bump into each other unless i call him.SO if i dont call him he wont know i came or went.I miss him and our conversations.But i cant contact him you guys are right.I have to manage on my own ,dont want to call any friends or family.Just chatting on this line is my solution for now.I need a change though ...Hmmm dont know what to do next.
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