Posted by
Pritt
19 yrs ago
A friend of mine walked away when found out her long distance relationship boyfriend has cheated. Have always wonder will things turn out differently if she has confronted him rather than just walked away.
So here's the question, is it better to confront your partner or just walk away when he/she has cheated on you. Or is there a third option?
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I think all options lead to the same destination...
If she'd confronted, there was no certainty the bloke would have been honest and told her his story.
In walking away, it may have made 'closure' harder to cope with, but she has risen above like an angel and kept herself pearly white...
The third option surely is 'revenge', which is a dish best served cold, and to be honest, isn't an option I would ever take (if I could help it).
I think she was very wise and brave to do what she did.
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tia
19 yrs ago
Sure, you could confront it, but even if you do and he swears it will never happen again, will you ever truly trust him again? Sure, I would confront him first and then tell him to hit the road, Jack, because I know that *I* personally would never be able to truly trust him again.
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I agree JC, but it seems this was a long distance thingy... so she really didn't have much of a leg to stand on. I mean, they are possibly thousands of miles apart... It seems natural to think that eventually you'll find someone closer to home and she would have sounded desperate ranting at him when they never see each other.
I would love to have the guts to say fukk off to someone who'd abused my trust...
Maybe this is the year for that!!
I'm feeling better all ready...
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All depends on what she wants.
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how about confronted and walked away? I did that. So?
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Pritt
19 yrs ago
To me, confronting is to seek for an explaination and also the possibility to solve the problem and carry on with the relationship. But agree with TIA that whether it's possible to trust him again, especially over a long distance relationship.
Walking away and leaving things as it is seems the clearest way to do however would leave one thinking whether it would be too harsh to not let the other side explain.
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Pritt
19 yrs ago
AD: I can truely ensure U it's my friend and not me. But I did went through a similar situation with the different of I caught him red-handed. I accidentally found him and the other woman in the house, both naked! It was quite a shocking experience and hope I did had the option to just walk away.
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so you did not walk away?
I also caught them naked before, i did not walk away, i asked the guy to explain the details, but i had a little good fight! It sounds stupid now. I still walk away at the end.
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Pritt
19 yrs ago
He tried to explain himself but I was too shock to take any of that in. There was a lot of shouting involved and I gave him a full-on slap before walking out of the house. Thinking back now, should have made it more dramatic and kick him where it hurts.
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I did not slap him, I had a good look. I told him i though the woman got good good breast butlooks a bit too big and fake. hahahahahaha....
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Pritt
19 yrs ago
Funnybaby: how did he reacted then?
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