Posted by
funblonde
16 yrs ago
I am a single expat girl who's not been too keen on getting into a relationship. Instead, I have had a sex-only "relationship" with a man for about a year now. I'm not interested in developing the relationship, nor do I think that he is.
Unfortunately, over the past few months, our meetings have become more and more sporadic. We both work and I have tried to accommodate his work schedule for our short but intense meetings.
He is getting increasingly difficult to meet up with though. He says that he wants to see me but I suspect something's wrong. I don't want anything to change and I definitely don't want to sit him down for a "big talk".
Should I just end it to save myself the drama?
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C.Y.
16 yrs ago
If you are not that keen on getting into a relationship, get another sex-partner will be fine~
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I think thats normal in "sex relationship" only.. bored with the same person and move on looking for the new partner which more intense him and will keep going on like that.. It must be lots of partner he have before, during and after "sex relationship" with you.
Someone told me.. the name for this kind of female "Low Maintenance Woman" cause it's pure sex not involved any feelings..
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C.Y. - I have thought of that but finding someone so compatible as the current one (he's the best lover I've ever had) will not be easy. I suppose my problem is that I want things to keep going with the guy I'm with, I just really want to avoid complications.
I would think you correct Ms Goodwill, but this has been a mutually Low Maintenance relationship...and I should add that I have never asked for exclusivity so he's free to see others.
I've always thought of it as an ideal arrangement up until now...
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Ms. funblonde.. so, maybe he's busy with others at this moment so he don't have enough time to have fun with you.. or if he's married man.. his wife smell "something wrong" ... cool down abit to make wife not suspect him..
But why you need other opinions as you seem knows very well what you dealing with at the 1st place...?
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Ms Goodwill. Thank you for your reply. No, he's not married.
I was hoping for advice from someone who have been in or can relate to the situation.
I understand that it is easy to judge my preferred choice of relationship but I am not hurting anyone.
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alk
16 yrs ago
find someone else. some people also really do need sex with no strings attached with the right partner. or maybe you need to talk to someone about it.
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pup
15 yrs ago
Come my way. I am sure we can work something out.
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