Posted by
Fixer
14 yrs ago
My maid has been with me for the last 18 months and both my wife and I have a good working relationship with her; she is hard working, polite and is conscious of her role as the housekeeper and we as employers and her demeanour is reflected in this. She is rather shy with most people she meets and does not go out to the city on her days off, preferring to spend time at the local church and remain relatively close-by to where we live. A couple weeks ago, I was taking an afternoon nap after showering to cool off in the afternoon heat -catching up with the World Cup matches had taken its toll on me- and unbeknown to her she walked in to clean my room without knocking to check, she thought I was elsewhere around the house. It has to be said at this point that I sleep au naturel. As soon as I heard the door open I realized the truth of the matter and that it would in all certainty give her an unexpected fright. She was very discreet about the situation and quickly closed the door behind her as if the last 5 seconds didn’t occur. Nothing was mentioned by either of us afterwards or over the next few days. Then I started to notice a change in her behaviour towards me, the once very quiet shy girl started to open up and joke with me about things and we could hold a conversation about things for much longer periods than before. I’ve also noticed that the way she looks at me has a certain sparkle to it and when she hands me things, she makes it a point touch my hand. I don’t know where things will end up from here, but I am wary of her notions or obscure advances towards me if that’s the case. Dilemma – I don’t want to lose the maid as she’s a good employee and the current situation with my other half isn’t that great. If she progresses to, say, an advanced stage, do I accept, reject or bring it out in the open. Other points to note about the situation, I work from home so I see her all the time and she is quite presentable. Please advise.
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Sorry but I'm a bit skeptical about your story.
It sounds sooo similar to another story here on the forum, about a guy who comes out of the shower and the helper is there and sees him naked. After that, things change, she talks to him more, looks at him more and touches his hand unncessarily when passing things to him, etc etc etc.
So what advice do you want? You want advice on whether you should divorce your wife because things are not going well????
You want advice on whether you should fire your helper before something inappropriate happens???
Or you want someone to tell you it's okay to cheat on your wife, and use and abuse your helper and fulfill your latest fantasy?????
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I too am skeptical.
I think it may just be a fantasy troll.
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sicn
14 yrs ago
It is natural to have sparks between younger pretty live-in maid and male master/employer. What is not natural is the necessity to have a full-time live-in maid in a relatively close living space. I'll say unless you have the money and space for a couple of married helpers or a butler who can keep you and the maid in check, spare yourself with this trouble.
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Totally agree with Slammy ... this is too similar to a 'story' that was on here some time ago. It even sounds like a story the way it's written ... I agree that it's probably someone who's a bit bored, dreaming up a fantasy.
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simple, i am just hiring a maid and one of the criteria is that she is not too good looking (also not too ugly of course). . .
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ah yes, maid is so impressed with your manlihood she falls in love with you, surely this happened to you many times in the past?
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Hi Madtown,
It's a totally plausible story, of course. It's just the way that it was written smacks of insincerity... just someone bored and looking to start a fake forum.
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It is a total re-run of the walked in on me after a shower, later started touching my hand affectionately, that was posted last year.
Someone is bored because the family are out the country for the summer, perhaps.
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Fixer
14 yrs ago
Yes there are similarities to the other posting as you cynics mentioned, but I am only putting into words of the events that took place and as this is an open forum, I was trying to elicit response drawn from similar experiences as I am sure it’s far more common than I suspect.
For the Troll hunters who’ve taken the courtesy of giving me a response –you know who you are; tell me how far-fetched is the story for you to brand me a fantasy troll or as some sad person with too much time on my hands.
So Slimy, Tigerboy, Tinytod, Spurty et al, you’ve earned another gold star and give yourselves a pat on the back for job well done. I suppose you guys spend all day trawling through the posts and rather than offer constructive criticism, get off on discounting peoples posts. But then again, you lot are bored up, lonely and have too much time on your hands.
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ok then here is some advice....go ahead pork the maid and be done with your marriage. You will never regret it.
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Assuming this story is true;
I got a feeling the maid is leading you on, setting you up for a trap. If you go along with this, she's got that on you. The next thing is she will be asking for you for money or else she will set the wife on you, not to mention the whole sexual harassment thing. You could get your whole life wiped out over a little thing like this. In this situation, how can you, as a man, prove your side of the story??
Don't do it. Do your very best to make sure she can't get you alone. Find another maid asap.
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Fixer - a word of advice, quit before you make a complete fool of yourself. You don't even have the intelligence to invent a credible fantasy. Mind you, if this gives your life a bit of meaning, who are we to interfere....
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well he did invent a credible title for his porn flick fantasy
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There is of course an easy way around the problem that Agent 787 brought up....
Wire the apartment with cameras and microphones, so that you can record the whole encounter and the run up to it, with her leading you on and begging openly for you, with that special "sparkle".
Not only will this protect you from the sexual harassment thing, but you can show the wife that it wasn't your lead, and if the wife doesn't buy that then you can sit back and watch the re-runs when you are on your own on those cold winter evenings!
It's a win-win. :-)
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Hey you can even upload it to a porno site. And then apply to be The Mask
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This is going to bring you nothing but trouble.
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Wish I could afford the luxury of time to create and write another side of the story titled "Trouble for maid" from the maid's perspective, that should be fun.......
I cannot tell from your post whether she has feelings for you, but Man, for sure your fantasy can possibly put yourself in deep "shxt" in case she thinks the opposite way.
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