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Navv
18 yrs ago
If you go by honest instinct then yes go ahead and tell your family. Be ready for the initial shock response from their end but take confidence from the fact that you stood by the truth and are prepared to take them on board with the happenings in your life. Wish you all the best take care and God bless
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Is there another reason you didn't tell your family about the marriage other than the age factor? It's pretty immature of you to get married, have a baby and keep borrowing money from your family without even telling them all these times. Sorry, don't mean to be critical. They sure deserve to know. I think the opening statement should be "I'm sorry, but I....." Shocked? Yes, but family will be family. They will embrace the fact and be supportive. Only takes time. Best of luck.
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Do you really need to ask for advice?
What is done is done...you are married and you have a child now...that's all that's important.
Of course both your parents will be shocked, disappointed and probably disapprove (at first) but, as funcqkw said "family will be family".
You can't hide it forever...
Also...as I agree with funcqkw that it's immature of you to keep borrowing money without telling them.
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Agree with the above, very immature behaviour. Did you really think that you could keep hubby and baby a secret forever. As for the 'strict' family excuse,I don't buy it.
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you tell me on my problem, be honest to your self, then apply it for you. BE HONEST.....
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There is nothing can help but truth,the whole truth.No matter how strict you family is,you are their love.Love sometimes means forgiveness.
(i am based in Peking.)
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Best that your family hear the truth from you. It will be more painful for them to find out from other people that you already have a husband and child. And besides, don't you want to share your happiness with your family?
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