Posted by
Ringo23
15 yrs ago
"Don't know what I should do now."
That's fine, it's part of life.
What you shouldn't do, though, is ask an anonymous online forum for advice.
It's your life and your wife. How could a faceless opinion come close to knowing what's right for you?
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I'd suggest you decide if you want to save the relationship with your wife first.
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I would not bother 'cheating back'. It won't make you feel better and it certainly won't help your relationship with your wife. Personally, I would run the other direction, end the relationship and open myself up to a new relationship in the future. 'Cheating back' seems like the kind of response I came up with in high school. Sorry to be so blunt.
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If you cheat on her, you are telling her that you are all emotional and you want to get back at her so you guys can have a balance and be back together and ride my little ponnies to the sunset.
Don't cheat out of revenge. This is what you do:
1. Get a divorce lawyer. A dirty one (if you know what I mean).
2. As directed by your lawyer, sell your assets and talk to your boss.
3. Once you legally don't have a penny to your name, quietly get divorced.
4. During all this process, meet anyone you like and do anything you please.
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and then once you have done all TXcowboy outlines, that is then the time to get even.
Go shag her sister or best friend! :-) or both!
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TX why are you so quick to suggest divorce?
I guess OP should decide whether he wants to repair this marriage or not. Taking revenge is just childish, two wrongs dont make a right.
Couples have recovered from infelidity, it may be a difficult process but there is hope for some of us.
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Did you ever watch the movie "Closer"? at the end of the day, Its matter that who you really connected with, and not who you slept with. (both men and women)
Let time tell ...
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dont do anything out of revenge. revenge clouds your judgment, simply as that.
once you are in a sound mind, assess your situation and rationalize your options (forgiving, divorce, etc)
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Cowboy is right. Come on, u people.. a woman who cheated on their husbands or boyfriend means they were really not into them anymore. Men cheat for some shallow reasons, women cheat and they are serious. Be man enough to save your own face, darling. Think! men and women cheat for different reasons. Women do it with more emotions than men. And if that woman come crying telling you how sorry she is.. trust my arse.. she dont mean it and she will do it again to you one day. Know why? bec she once sees you as a sissy and that wont ever change!!!!!!
give that no-brainer bitch some lesson to be learnt!
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The time now is 12:08 a.m. so my ELEGANCE DAY is just over and I can go back to be cheeky again. :)
OMG!!! What a man! You found your wife cheated on you and the first thing that crossed your mind is "cheating back"? Then I do not feel surprised why she cheated on you. I even don't sense any your sad feelings about your wife's infidelity! Huh!
Now look at the second post, what did you tell us? You're mentioning there were women offering themselves to you because you are fit and good looking, so you're not sure what should do. Attention every one, what he was struggling about perhaps is not anything related to saving his marriage, but on if he should let these women slip through his fingers that he used to!
Go ahead, man! Your wife has given you the most honourable reason to cheat back. What are you still waiting for? Encouragement from us here? No need, follow your heart, that's is what you are tempted and probably can't wait to do!
Apology if my accusation is wrong though, but given only few lines, we can only judge by its surface!
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are you going to forgive her? if you can, do the right thing and do it right.
if you cant, let go and move on. the untilmate punishment will be divorcing her according to the steps of TX's suggestions.
cheating back doesnt ease the pain had caused you. you will always remember the incident. and it sounds pussy that 'you jsut f* a girl to make another girl jealous'.
and after you cheat back, are you going to let her know? and then what? cause a fight? then what?
if your wife doesnt love you that much anymore, the only thing you can do is to show her she sent away a man who at least with some dignity.
otherwise, she would think, jeez! i shouldnt have dumped that pussy faster.
of course, if you wanna go for the other girls as you want a fair game in your marriage, you dont need encouragement to accomplish it. you are the only one to judge.
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LOL! TX has a zero-tolerance for cheating! How ironic!!!
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Hellokitty. I do have a zero tolerance for cheating. I did it, it was wrong, and I've learn about it. Today I don't cheat and I will not cheat no matter what. Now, some people can't afford to leave though, so I understand why some people do so.
In this case, I stand by my guns. DIVORCE.
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There are some sick advice people are giving.
1. I would not Cheat back. (so shallow)
2. Take some time out to think.
3. Then once the things dies down, then discuss why she cheated? I think for a women to cheat is much harder than a man.(harder in the sense what drives them to cheat) is it a bad judgement caused by some extenal factors.
I will assess the relationship, apart from this incidient has the relationship been good? is is worth saving ? I believe if you can get over this then the relationship will be much stronger, and the chance of it happening again is very small. (If if does occur again then follow all the other sick advice).
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the greatunknownask
Here's a question for you - from another post, you wrote you go to professionals for additional services which you need and that your wife is unaware of your action and you don't call that cheating. OK, fair enough if that is your understanding. Now, if your wife finds out and approaches you on this, would it be hard for you to give up the so-call service once and for all to save your marriage? Or will you still do it secretly even after promising your wife.
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Cheating back will not solve the problem in the relationship,have a frank and honest talk with your wife and decide your future accordingly.
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