Men and love

Can men really be in love, or love, two women at the same time??

Of course men can really be in love,the question is do women recognize when a guy is totally in love? and that brings up the question, how does he show it.. and is the way he shows it compatible with your expectations.

Being in love with two women at the same time seems hard, but theoretically it is possible, even though I wonder how much is love, how much is simply desire and how much is just flattering of the male ego...

Of course men can be in love.


The question I am asking is can they be in love with two women at the same time?

Because it isn't possible for most women to do that and hence to even understand that men can do it.

I'm gonna have to say you can definatly love multiple women at the same time BUT and its a big but Im talking about here, "In love" carries a certain degree of infatuation that probably cant be equalled out between multiple recipients.


That draws a distiction between loving someone and being in love with someone that might not be what you want to think a whole lot about if your askin this question. It might mean your the loved one not the "in love with" one or you wouldnt be feeling the crunch. After time and a bit of nagging plus years of fertility treatments that just made my wife too much of a science project to be mysterious anymore I just dont feel the pull of being in love with my her anymore. On the other hand I could never do anything to hurt her because I DO love her. I dont know if I will fall in love with someone else eventually or if I should look for that? But either way I am deffinatly feeling the answer to your question here. I love her but I am beginning to really check out other women and have felt drawn to nice atractive women I meet when Im away working or juat away. I didnt have those thoughts or feelings a few years ago. Doesnt mean I dont still love her. Dont really know what iut does mean though. After being with her for 10 yrs I will always love her and care very much about her.


Hope it helps but doesnt hurt to hear that.


Please dont think Im a scum bag for actually airing some honest feelings here in hopes it will help you out. Im not running around China cheating at every opp I get and believe me there are opportunities.


When you are really "In love" w someone (and getting enough to keep the pipes cleaned out) then shes the only woman on the planet and you dont think about any others.


Sorry if thats too long...


Sasquatch