I was in Penang and I met a russian girl, who was staying there for a couple of days, but who lives in Bangkok. We had a couple of total amazing days together (not in a sleazy/physical way) anyway we got on really well and I have exchanged a few text messages with her since I got back to the UK and hope to keep things going. However, there were a few nagging doubts she wouldn't tell me what she exactly did for a job other than she is out in bangkok for another year, and whilst she said she was from moscow, I saw she had a hotel employee card for a tashkent hotel as a fitness instructor.
Can anybody suggest why there would be this much secrecy?
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It's ok, I have done my own research and all fears are gone.
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my fears were not that she was a prostitute, i knew that she wasn't. I just feared that I was getting to know someone who wasn't all they claimed to be. I can see from reading my previous post that it looks like i thought that but I knew she wasn't. I just didn't want to think I was getting to know her and then find out it was false. Out of interest I found out she has a son, that is why she was being a bit cagey.
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Yes, many many hotels in exotic locales have female Russian balalaika players tinking away in the ladies bar
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i certainly have no plans to be flying over to the far east to start a relationship. That is not an issue, but a friendship is certainly on the cards. However, as a rule friendships work best if people are honest, so we just needed to get a few things straighened out. Thanks for the advice though, although well meant it does amuze me to think that someone thought this was an option :-) still i suppose some people probably would want to start a relationship, but i am too much of a realist to do this.
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jigglypuff, firstly she wasn't russian she told me she was from moscow as she thought that telling me she was from tashkent wouldn't mean anything to me, to a degree i can understand that. when i tell foreign clients i am from the uk, they immediately say london? if i then tell them no and explain where i do live you can see it doesn't register. she isn't working as a fitness instructor in bk, she did that in tashkent, and the id card was for a tashkent hotel. in BK she works as a graphic designer the fitness job was taken to help pay for studies while she was back home. oh and to give a bit more back ground i'm 27 and she was 28 so it isn't a case of an aging expat trying to get a young bride etc etc. no i don't work for the british government????
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well this seems to be generating some mileage, it's a public holiday in the uk this weekend, i'm off down to london for a few days, i might pick this up when i get back, or I might leave it as I'm getting bored.
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