Internet dating - How worth is it?

Hi there


Has any of you guys or gals, found your partner in life thru the internet and have had a wonderful relationship. Does internet relationship really work? Any good advice or tips.


Sorry to ask. But I've been trying thru the internet dating sites to find my young lady for the past 2 years or so but nothing really has taken off. Do I give up?? Is it a waste of time. I wonder whether I'm missing something here.

I'm 42, have a non-professional job and do travel a bit. However I don't have much of a security like a fat bank account or real estate properties. Not to offend the ladies, but is that what most women look for these days...securities in cash and property.


This is a real test of patience. Should I keep hoping that the net will finally bring my partner or am I to just drop this internet dating all together and go out to the cafe and bars for the real thing.


Hope to hear from those who have had successful relationship thru the net and those who have not.

thanks and cheers

Al

Hi Cara


Thanks for sharing.

Well sorry about the girl to have lost her boyfriend. Hope she has been able to carry with her life and hope for new things.

It's possiblly true. Materialism has kind of replaced everything about love and relationship building these days.

To answer your question, I am single and never married.

Thanks for the hope and my searchin continues.

Do take care.

Al

I do not really like dating through internet. I always like meeting people face to face. To me, this is more real by the way. Try to open your heart & smile to everyone & be happy everyday. The key is when you stop finding, then you will get what you want. Of course always someone is out there waiting for you. Just treat people with your heart everyday. I have a happy marriage

Thanks Teress and Cara for your inspirational messages.


Beauty is the eye of the beholder. Actually I am not fussy. By the way I'm Malaysian (indian complexion) and open to any nationality as long as the chemistry works.

Well I guess you right Teress....when you stop finding, you might just knock into someone and the chemisty begins.

Thanks for everything.

You ladies take care and keep up the good work.

God bless you,

Alban

It's a fair question I suppose and good to see it's attracted some quality reponses above which I've certainly enjoyed reading.


In my experience, I think here in Asia many responses to personal ads, aren't too focused on what the ad says if you know what I mean. Whether because of the language barrier or whatever I don't know but irrespective of what the ad says, you still end up with a load of bland replies.


Re the dating contacts who get in touch with you, you might want move asap to either phone calls or MSN/Yahoo Messenger with webcam enabled. That might cut down on endless emails etc and allow both parties to get a better picture of the other. Might save time.


I think the answer terribly disheartening - as cara tanka says above - persevere and don't give up and you never know. It's the only way I think.

It can be vary successful or a complete waste of time.


It depends how you manage it and the people.


Be thoughtful in your "profile", say exactly what you want and ask a few questions too in your profile.


See who replies and has read it properly, so at least you may be seeking the same sort of thing.


Only reply to a few people, or it gets way too confusing and time consuming. ALso, then you can focus your energy and efforts better.


IMPORTANTLY!

Meet very soon before you build any sort of bonf through typing on a computer email thing.


It is FALSE to build the relationship that way.

But it is FINE to make contact with someone.


Remember, get the relationship/friendship REAL and away from the internet.


Get over the fact you met of the internet, and move onto real life.


Many, many people meet throghthe internet.


DANGER PEOPLE

Somwe people a serial daters from the internet, and try and have too many "potentials" on the go so they alwys have someone.


The internet provides an ambudence of potential partners, and ir is much much easier to send someone a message etc than approach someone in person. So keep it simple, stay away from series internet daters (they will always be looking fo rthe next one instead of taking you seriously).


Disable your profile once you are seeing afew people, because they will check to see if yuo are still loggiing in and presume you are not all that interested in them by doing so.


Good luck, it can work really well, but only consider it as an initial meeting place, and then got on with it. There are always plenty of local people, forget trawling o/s dating sites unless you are really remotely located or are considering moving to that country. Ans remember, people are different to how they may write and say about themselves (warning - photo's!) so paramount to meet in person.

That's solid advice Maxis, very helpful indeed. You make some good and well-thought out points.


Can I ask? How was your general Internet-dating experience? I get impression you learned the above the hard way...?


I particularly agree with the advice to meet asap and NOT establish a false bond via email. Well worth heeding.

Well, to answer Markuk's question,


It's the same as meeting through sports clubs, bars, firends etc, but more effecient. So I found as long as you don't build a false bond via email and meet (in real life)then it should be ok.


Always meet soon after contact!


Personally, I would meet someone once (drink is good as can progress to dinner/snacks if you like the person), you'd both know if it wasn't to be.


Then when you (I) make a connection, and think "yeah, I'd like to get to know her better" you (I) stop meeting anyone else (not put others on the back burner, but remove ad) then put in good and proper focus (not obsession) in getting to know that person.


Too many people trying to "see" to many at once. FIne to multi-sample, but once you like someone if you are still putting energy into looking at others,. you will never put in the right level of interest required to have someone special. Also, you get confused,and can slip-up with things.


Because it is quite easy to meet people via internet, the tempation is to have several on the go.


Well I have met nice ones, and actually one particlarly nice one :)

good advice...if you waste too much energy dating other people, or keeping them on the back burner, you will never know if this particular person is right for you. Once you choose the object of your curiosity, lust, love etc. stick to him/her and resume your Internet dating only if and when you are sure it's over with that person. I, for one, would dump a guy who is still seeking/emailing women after we became intimate.

Thanks Maxis. Pleased to hear about your 'particularly nice one'. Good luck there - you never know.


Selda> totally agree re people keeping in touch with other contacts 'back burner' style. It's uniquely sh*te, for want of a better phrase, and gives one a very poor impression indeed.

Appreciate all your comments and advice. Thank you so much Cara, Teress, Mjo, Mio, Aijin, Markuk, Selda, and Maxis.


It certainly gives me much hope as I perserve inspite of disappointments. Interestingly a few weeks ago, I got a female contact thru the internet. In her 2nd email she questioned about my job security, my finances and my family which appeared to be her concerns. In reply I answered all her questions truthfully. But I in return I got a shocking email reply from her. She called me a cheat and a liar and a whole lot of other things in her email. Apparently she did not seem to believe anything I said especially regarding not owning any property at all and that I was all bluffing and called me "man with no properties".


I was totally shocked. I then had to politely reply her that she got the wrong person and ended it all.


Words certainly can hurt. I wondered and realised that telling the truth doesn't seem to matter these days. If I had told her that I had a lot of cash and properties, etc, I am sure she would be so much into getting to know me. What a way of life. Maybe she had her problems in her life and I happen to be her scapegoat.


Well life has to go on and I guess the rest of you have had your share of relationships struggles. Thanks for your support and advice thru the emails. Do keep up the good work.


Let bygones be bygones. Learn from the past and move on to better and greener pastures.

Shalom and God bless you all

Alban

Agree that not many people believe in the truth bt rather live in lies...bunch of crap!

Meeting the right person is a numbers game. The more people we meet, the more chance we will meet a suitable partner.


In our very busy modern life, the intenet makes things easier.


Yes there are strange people out there. I meet them in Bars, Gyms, Clubs, at work. If anything the internet allows us to see peoples true charachter sooner.

it all depends. if you are lucky can meet right person there but most not

1. NEVER GIVE UP~

2. TRY MORE OTHER WAYS TO LOOK FOR A GF~

Yep!! Meeting people aint easy for sure!!!!


I agree with many opinions here, but i believe it's better to meet people face to face, at least you get a lot better picture of what they're really about, rather than bang heads over the internet. In my opinion there aint no substitute for looking someone in the eye when you’re exchanging ideas.


Remember, many people hide behind the internet to cover their true personalities. Its not uncommon for people to exaggerate and present a 'wanabe' image of themselves.


After all if internet players told the absolute truth about themselves then the world would be full to bursting with athletically built, attractive people with great senses of humour!!!! Right?


But hey, It can work and you can meet the 'right one' over the internet for sure, just bare in mind that there aint no 10/10 out there, they don’t exist. If you meet a 7/10 then get stuck in and try to work out the other 3 areas of disappointment between yourselves....


Good luck

well, I am very confused about internet dating as well. I am a divorcee in my forties...still looking okay but I find that I somehow feel very skeptical about people who writes to me. Is there anyway we could feel more assured that the people we received response from are genuine? I certainly would like to get out there and meet decent genuine people. Could someone give me a decent lead to somewhere to start? Perhaps someone should start a forum for divorced men and women to just have a casual get together.

There are still nice, honest, decent people out there, even on internet. For me there is no reason to give lies since I have nothing to hide. And I believe people are basically genuine. Of course there are insincere ones who are just trying to fool around, but that you can feel soon. So no reason to be afraid to email people. Yes, me too I would like to have a get-together with divorced people who want to re-establish a relationship...

For those genuine friends out there, i am also a divorcee and looking for genuine friends...men and women. Anyone care to write to each other for a genuine friendship?

http://hongkong.asiaxpat.com/nightlife/personals/

In some ways the internet dating is a good way to meet people. You can really specifiy what you are looking for and what you are all about. When you meet someone in a club, or wherever, you meet usually by looks/appearance and not on personaility. I have a number of friends back in my home country who do the internet dating. Some date and date and some have found partners. Three I know are now married and happy. I think people have to be honest about themselves tho, and from what I have seen/heard from one friend, some people portray themselves as someone they are not. That is false advertising.

Shal, I would not come right and tell them you do not have property or tons of money. Tell them the truth of what your job is, but people do not need to know how much money u make or have, especially not at the begining of a relationship. Sorry, but any woman asking about money, even before you meet, is not worth it and is just after money. May I ask what type of work you do?

I am married, but if I was single I would try internet dating. Alot of friends use Lava Life and another I can't remember the name.

Hi Alban, Forget about that nasty woman but some ppl going on internet dating can be for a reason (not love). From what you have written, you seem to be a nice & honest man. Money and property is not that important, personality counts. The thought of internat dating is scary... might meet some perverts, I'd rather be alone (and happy).

Hey you're probably a nice guy like myself that wants to believe that a good decent person would not lie or cheat you. Your best bet is to find someeone on the net that does not talk about finances or needing money or grandma is dying and I need help. Let her know upfront that you are not a materialistic person and believe that true love and long term relationships are not based on a bank account, but rather on the partnership of two people who have made a decision to love each other. Remember, to love someone is a choice. If you look at any individual hard enough and long enough, you will see flaws. It is up to us to accept those flaws in that person and know he or she is just like us. Not perfect.

Hi Everyone


Just want to thank you guys and the ladies for all the advice and encouragement I have received. I certainly do feel very much hopefully in my search for my fair lady. On the other hand, she could be very much under my very nose too and just that I maybe looking in the wrong places.

I honestly did not expect to hear from some many people from all walks of life. Thank you so much once again and do keep up the good work. I will be back when I'm found by her.

Best wishes of sucess, prosperity and good health to all of you.

Alby

good luck.

Wow. So much transpired. Can I just share a rather good site I recently tried? It's www.eharmony.com. Only trouble is that there are not many sign-ups from Asia. But the plus is that it guides members step-by-step with various questions before you get to OPEN communication. There, you start to ask OPEN-ended questions and then swap email addresses and continue offline. You can also use their phone services to talk without revealing your own number. Of course, with such service, you pay a subscription.


I agree with those above that Internet Dating is like everything in life - it involves risks and opportunities. You have to take precaution and you have to learn to respect others.


I've tried internet dating twice, about 4 years apart - both times when I was in between jobs and have time to spare. And surprisingly, I got acquainted to two decent individuals on the two separate occasions but both residing in the US. I never met the first but am planning to meet the second one soon. This is someone who will travel from Washington DC to come to HK to meet me. We have been emailing every day for the past month. And we even exchanged music CDs. Of course, photos as well. Still, I holding back my reservations till I actually meet the person.


Bottom line is this - IF EVERYONE is honest in how they describe themselves on the internet (this won't work for those living in self delusion), then internet dating is in fact better than real-life dating. As you will not tainted by looks or exterior. You are forced to look INSIDE of the other party. How she or he writes, talks about things, style of communication etc. Looks of course matter. But which comes first - the inside or the outside? If you're the type to go for inside first, then fuss about the outside later, then Internet Dating could be the way for you.


I tried eHarmony to check it out for a friend looking for partners since I have time to spare before I start my new job. Still, it's a long way to go. From internet dating, the next stage for me will be distance dating since the person is literally 12 hours away from me.


Some of us get it easier. Some of us just have to struggle more to find a partner. Funny thing is this - the former group usually don't appreciate their luck. With no struggle, the things you get easily in life are seldom appreciated. Agree?


cwk

Recently met the man of my dreams on a dating site....a couple of emails, a few calls and now three meetings and it is great! Persistance beats resistance!

Two and half weeks ago on Sep 17, 2007, I receive one email from the internet:


Thank you for the responding to me and I do look forward to our friendship journey. Ming, I did not pu the qoute for the purpose to playing games, sorry for the misunderstanding.


I guess the best place to start is why am coming to your city and why am I looking for friendship at this site. I am an independent business owner for the past 3 years. After I completed my MBA in marketing management, I worked on year in the corporate sector and decided very quickly that this was not for me. So I decided to take a leap of faith and develop my consulting company. It was very hard at first, but I was lucky enough to land several large clients who gave me some excellent referrals. From then, my business has grown and now I am adding a few associates. I primarily work from me home, but have an office in the down town Mertyl Beach business area.


My full name is Jeffery Roberts and I like to be called Jeff. I live in Myrtle Beach South Caroline a resort city on the coast. I have considered moving, but I just love the water and all things associated with it. I am not sure how real estate is going in your city, but here is a CRAZY market. I purchased my home two years ago and just love to do home body things when I am here. I will send you some photos of my home and life if you want to see.


I have one older sister and she lives in Florida near my parents. They retired 3 years ago at a young age and now they are REALLY enjoying life. Dad was a very smart businessman who invested his money wisely and now he can enjoy the fruits of his labor.


So why am I writing to a personal ad when there are Millions of eligible females in the US? I found this site through one of my international contacts. He met a very nice lady online and they are very happy now. I think that we live in a global community now and why should I limit my search for love and my soul mate to just American girls. My past relationship was with a girl who was mixed Asian American and I grew to respect and value her Asian values and traditions. We broke up a year ago when her family had to move to California. She is now in medical school and very focused on her life for the next 5 years. Since then I have tried to bars crowd and some blind dated (WOW! Never that again) but have not found the connection.


So what is Jeff all about? Well, I guess as journey of friendship moves forward you will form your own opinion. But for now, let’s say I am very out going, funny; love to laugh, passionate about life, love, and having a family one day. Once I am committed, I believe in a one on one and do not go in for one night stands. I am searching for a lady who wants to build a strong family, who would like to work with me in the family business if she wants, has a desire to be a life long learner, is not shy discussing love, her desires in marriage, desires in love making, and most important a sense of humor.


Hopefully I did not give you info overload in this letter, but I am a very straight forward kind of guy, who believes in sharing my feelings, passion, and desire with you. Please do not hesitate in asking me anything.

I have attached another photo and hope you will continue to share more photos with me. My travel advisor is developing my travel itinerary and I hope to be there in the next 60 days. Look forward to hearing from you again. I like your photos and hope we can continue to share.


Please write to me at jrconsult1@yahoo.com


I do not check this that often. Thanks


Jeff


This is his advertisement in the internet which I responded:

Do you know the right tune to play? If so please let’s be friends online and then see how our song of friendship develops. I am a 33yo single white American management consultant currently living in US and will be traveling to your city soon. I speci

Do you know the right tune to play? If so please let’s be friends online and then see how our song of friendship develops. I am a 33yo single white American management consultant currently living in US and will be traveling to your city soon. I specialized in helping my clients develop international contacts. That is my business, but my real desire is to find a friend who enjoys life, travel, family and wants a serious relationship. The bar crowd is to shallow thinking for my taste and I do not enjoy blind dates. Please drop me a line and photo so we can see if we can play the same tune.

I responded to him and we keep writing to each other. In the middle, he asked me for sexy photos. I sent some photos of back to him, and then he asked me for front photos, I didn’t’ send. Then he asked me for phone sex. I told him I couldn’t. He still asked me for front photos. I told I would shoot some later for him. I asked him for his mobile phone number. He ignored. Later with my threat to break up, he sent me his number. Later he concluded what happened between him and me with this email: darling thanks for sharing more about yourself with me. I want to know as much as I can about your culture, traditions, and your heart. These things are important to me and will help us understand how to communicate better in all aspects of our relationship. Baby, I take to much for granted and assume that your feelings and way of thinking is like mind. How silly I am not to appreciate and value your culture and way of life. I guess it is my western thinking of wanting everything done so quickly and getting to the bottom line in a hurry. I must learn how to enjoy to journey and value the reward of at the end of the destination.



It seems when the seasons change, my body responses and lately I have been feeling so horny and lonely. I look at the photos of your cute body and my desire grows so strong. I want to see more and hear your passion for me . I guess that was why I got a little upset and stressed. We started so strong and then we came to a period of slowing down that was frustrating for me. It was been over a year since I had sex and I feel so strong a need in my body the last few weeks. I turned to you for compassion and desire and we both realized that we should slow down, and I guess that made me somewhat frustrated. I wanted to share our passion together over the phone and for us to cum together, but when you told me about your living arrangements, we could not. I did understand and would never do ANYTHING to put my baby in an embarrassing situation. So I ask you to show me more of your cute body in a sexy photo so I could look at your when I was horny and needed to cum. I think you have very sexy features, that is why I ask to see you from the front. I think dark pubic hair is so sexy and your body looks so sexy to me from what I can see in the photos I sent to you.



I just wanted to know that you had some desire for me Baby. Well now we have come to an understanding that we should keep our passion discussion until after we meet. I guess this is best, I am not sure what to dd, sweetheart, the need in my body is still there and we have over a month until I can hold you in my arms. I guess I will have to do more sports and work harder to keep my mind free.



How is your Holiday going? Are you spending more time with your art? It is nice to know that my baby will be very famous one day. If we find love, maybe we can go to Paris and see all the famous art.



Kisses that say I am very sorry to upset you

Jeff


I forgave him. In the last second letter, He wrote:


M & Jeff

Falling in love feels so good!!



Hey what is our dogs name?


Before I could reply to him, he wrote to me the last email: My Darling Dearest M,



Today I received some sad news and it will affect my planned trip for November. I lost some important clients and this lost of revenue will have to be replaced before I leave the country. I cannot ask you to wait for me and feel sad about building your expectations up concerning our future. As an independent business owner, I have to be concerned with my cash flow and the payment of my bills.



Your friendship and love has touched my heart deeply and the time that we shared will always occupy a special place in my heart and mind. Darling, my wish for you is that God will bring you true love, health, and prosperity in your every day.



All my love

Jeff

And when I replied to him, I found he disabled his email account already. And I tried to call him with the number he provided 443-880-6777, which is not from where he told he lives, Myrtle Beach South Caroline American. It did go through though. Nobody picked up.


His email account was cancelled and his number was not answered. He did call me once and we talked 14 minutes. I am sure he is an adult, not a kid. He did send me some photos and those photos are the same person. Now I am not sure if the man in the photo was just the guy who wrote to me.


Two and half weeks ago on Sep 17, 2007, I receive one email from the internet:


Thank you for the responding to me and I do look forward to our friendship journey. Ming, I did not pu the qoute for the purpose to playing games, sorry for the misunderstanding.


I guess the best place to start is why am coming to your city and why am I looking for friendship at this site. I am an independent business owner for the past 3 years. After I completed my MBA in marketing management, I worked on year in the corporate sector and decided very quickly that this was not for me. So I decided to take a leap of faith and develop my consulting company. It was very hard at first, but I was lucky enough to land several large clients who gave me some excellent referrals. From then, my business has grown and now I am adding a few associates. I primarily work from me home, but have an office in the down town Mertyl Beach business area.


My full name is Jeffery Roberts and I like to be called Jeff. I live in Myrtle Beach South Caroline a resort city on the coast. I have considered moving, but I just love the water and all things associated with it. I am not sure how real estate is going in your city, but here is a CRAZY market. I purchased my home two years ago and just love to do home body things when I am here. I will send you some photos of my home and life if you want to see.


I have one older sister and she lives in Florida near my parents. They retired 3 years ago at a young age and now they are REALLY enjoying life. Dad was a very smart businessman who invested his money wisely and now he can enjoy the fruits of his labor.


So why am I writing to a personal ad when there are Millions of eligible females in the US? I found this site through one of my international contacts. He met a very nice lady online and they are very happy now. I think that we live in a global community now and why should I limit my search for love and my soul mate to just American girls. My past relationship was with a girl who was mixed Asian American and I grew to respect and value her Asian values and traditions. We broke up a year ago when her family had to move to California. She is now in medical school and very focused on her life for the next 5 years. Since then I have tried to bars crowd and some blind dated (WOW! Never that again) but have not found the connection.


So what is Jeff all about? Well, I guess as journey of friendship moves forward you will form your own opinion. But for now, let’s say I am very out going, funny; love to laugh, passionate about life, love, and having a family one day. Once I am committed, I believe in a one on one and do not go in for one night stands. I am searching for a lady who wants to build a strong family, who would like to work with me in the family business if she wants, has a desire to be a life long learner, is not shy discussing love, her desires in marriage, desires in love making, and most important a sense of humor.


Hopefully I did not give you info overload in this letter, but I am a very straight forward kind of guy, who believes in sharing my feelings, passion, and desire with you. Please do not hesitate in asking me anything.

I have attached another photo and hope you will continue to share more photos with me. My travel advisor is developing my travel itinerary and I hope to be there in the next 60 days. Look forward to hearing from you again. I like your photos and hope we can continue to share.


Please write to me at jrconsult1@yahoo.com


I do not check this that often. Thanks


Jeff


This is his advertisement in the internet which I responded:

Do you know the right tune to play? If so please let’s be friends online and then see how our song of friendship develops. I am a 33yo single white American management consultant currently living in US and will be traveling to your city soon. I speci

Do you know the right tune to play? If so please let’s be friends online and then see how our song of friendship develops. I am a 33yo single white American management consultant currently living in US and will be traveling to your city soon. I specialized in helping my clients develop international contacts. That is my business, but my real desire is to find a friend who enjoys life, travel, family and wants a serious relationship. The bar crowd is to shallow thinking for my taste and I do not enjoy blind dates. Please drop me a line and photo so we can see if we can play the same tune.

I responded to him and we keep writing to each other. In the middle, he asked me for sexy photos. I sent some photos of back to him, and then he asked me for front photos, I didn’t’ send. Then he asked me for phone sex. I told him I couldn’t. He still asked me for front photos. I told I would shoot some later for him. I asked him for his mobile phone number. He ignored. Later with my threat to break up, he sent me his number. Later he concluded what happened between him and me with this email: darling thanks for sharing more about yourself with me. I want to know as much as I can about your culture, traditions, and your heart. These things are important to me and will help us understand how to communicate better in all aspects of our relationship. Baby, I take to much for granted and assume that your feelings and way of thinking is like mind. How silly I am not to appreciate and value your culture and way of life. I guess it is my western thinking of wanting everything done so quickly and getting to the bottom line in a hurry. I must learn how to enjoy to journey and value the reward of at the end of the destination.



It seems when the seasons change, my body responses and lately I have been feeling so horny and lonely. I look at the photos of your cute body and my desire grows so strong. I want to see more and hear your passion for me . I guess that was why I got a little upset and stressed. We started so strong and then we came to a period of slowing down that was frustrating for me. It was been over a year since I had sex and I feel so strong a need in my body the last few weeks. I turned to you for compassion and desire and we both realized that we should slow down, and I guess that made me somewhat frustrated. I wanted to share our passion together over the phone and for us to cum together, but when you told me about your living arrangements, we could not. I did understand and would never do ANYTHING to put my baby in an embarrassing situation. So I ask you to show me more of your cute body in a sexy photo so I could look at your when I was horny and needed to cum. I think you have very sexy features, that is why I ask to see you from the front. I think dark pubic hair is so sexy and your body looks so sexy to me from what I can see in the photos I sent to you.



I just wanted to know that you had some desire for me Baby. Well now we have come to an understanding that we should keep our passion discussion until after we meet. I guess this is best, I am not sure what to dd, sweetheart, the need in my body is still there and we have over a month until I can hold you in my arms. I guess I will have to do more sports and work harder to keep my mind free.



How is your Holiday going? Are you spending more time with your art? It is nice to know that my baby will be very famous one day. If we find love, maybe we can go to Paris and see all the famous art.



Kisses that say I am very sorry to upset you

Jeff


I forgave him. In the last second letter, He wrote:


M & Jeff

Falling in love feels so good!!



Hey what is our dogs name?


Before I could reply to him, he wrote to me the last email: My Darling Dearest M,



Today I received some sad news and it will affect my planned trip for November. I lost some important clients and this lost of revenue will have to be replaced before I leave the country. I cannot ask you to wait for me and feel sad about building your expectations up concerning our future. As an independent business owner, I have to be concerned with my cash flow and the payment of my bills.



Your friendship and love has touched my heart deeply and the time that we shared will always occupy a special place in my heart and mind. Darling, my wish for you is that God will bring you true love, health, and prosperity in your every day.



All my love

Jeff

And when I replied to him, I found he disabled his email account already. And I tried to call him with the number he provided 443-880-6777, which is not from where he told he lives, Myrtle Beach South Caroline American. It did go through though. Nobody picked up.


His email account was cancelled and his number was not answered. He did call me once and we talked 14 minutes. I am sure he is an adult, not a kid. He did send me some photos and those photos are the same person. Now I am not sure if the man in the photo was just the guy who wrote to me.


Any one there knows what is happening to me? Please advise! Thanks!