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the next step

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Posted by confused101 16 yrs ago
ok so i met this guy over the weekend.. we clicked.. hang out together all night..




the catch im in a relationship which going downhill at the moment..


so the "new guy" seems to like me a lot but i dont want to appear like im on the rebound.. we exchanged contact details. he is a nice person and we connected on a level that me and my current bf never have and never could..


i am confused as to what the next step should be...


any replies would be very appreciated

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COMMENTS
Wiz Bang 16 yrs ago
there is no next step yet... don't jump to conclusion that the next guy you meet would automatically be your next boyfriend


take is as a friendship, and let it grow

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confused101 16 yrs ago
gill,

my current relationship has been on the rocks for about 6months now.. as for trying to maintain it.. i have done what i can.. but i cant save the relationship by myself.. lets just say i ahve found enough evidence to prove that this relationsip is beyond saving..


i am treating it like a friendship.. im just confused thats all.. should i call him or text or wait for him to initiate contact.. i just want to keep in touch thats all..






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confused101 16 yrs ago
LGMV, u read right.. he seems to like me and im just unsure how to proceed with him.


i like him... and he seem to like me too, unless i misinterpreted his actions. im just unsure about how to keep in contact with out appearing too pushy or desperate..


i guess the best way is just to wait and see what happens...

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confused101 16 yrs ago
i want to push forward.. but the biggest question in my head now is "how????"


i was frank with him regarding my current relationship and he doesnt seem to mind if anything his words were encouraging me to just leave my current bf... i have left the bf the day after i met the guy.. and because of him, but because i have come to the last of my patience and to my senses.


so now im free... and lost as to how to form a foundation with this guy..


pardon my naivietee... but this has never happend to me before.. it usually takes months for me meet someone new after a break up...


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elsdon 16 yrs ago
hahah. oh you girls are so silly. there's no how. there's no magic formula. relationships are so simple. be honest. be yourself. that's all. whether it works out or not, well, that's up to the pair of you.

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confused101 16 yrs ago
yeah i guess so.. im still hurting from my break up thats why im so confused at the moment


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