On Wednesday June 8th, 2011 a local Chinese man was arrested for the NYE sexual assault case. He has admitted to the crime as well as at least 5 other sexual attacks on Caucasian (white) women in the Caine Rd Central area, of which only two of the victims have come forward. These women were followed home and attacked in the stairwell or near the elevator. If you suffered an attack or know someone who did please forward/encourage that person to come forward by contacting the Central Police Station OR Detective Louis Tam at 9388 0118
This is a crucial period before the trial where we can strengthen the case and make sure he is locked up for a long time and not just 2 or 3 years. Please help.
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hk111beauty - are you the same person who posted a thread at the weekend naming an expat who played the field? If so, you are pathetic.
If not, your post is still pathetic. Please don't use the term, "sexual attacks" in your thread cause you are trivialising the women who actually were attacked against their will and did not willingly get into bed with a guy like you did.
You got played. It's not a crime. Get over it. Get on with your life.
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Let me get this straight hk111beauty. You met him on a dating site. He wanted sex but you wanted a relationship. You willingly had sex with him. Now you feel cheated because he dumped you after the one night. Am I getting that right?
This guy sounds like he at worst gave the wrong impression of his intentions. As the others said, you got played. It happens. Get over it.
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Oh so it was you!
This is the funniest thing I have heard all day. I'm sorry that you got played hk111beauty, but reporting it to the police - really? i mean, REALLY? Did you REALLY do that???
Please tell us what the crime committed was. Did he force himself on you without your consent? Did he steal from you? Did he physically beat you? Did he threaten you? Did he blackmail you? etc...
Shame on you for wasting valuable police resources. You got your feelings hurt and you think it's ok to report it to the police? You are one deluded lady.
I am curious as to what you expect the police to do and the outcome.
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I actually meant, what do you expect the police to do for YOU about your situation? Not about meeting people over the internet in general, which of course does have it's hazards and anyone with an ounce of intelligence would know this.
In my mind, a sexual attack and a sexual assault are the same thing. That means one person did not consent and were forced to do things they did not want to after making clear the answer was NO. Are you now saying that he forced himself upon you despite you saying no? If so, this is a very serious allegation and one you should definetly follow up with the police as this man is clearly dangerous.
However, before this, you need to be clear to yourself and everyone else (people reading this thread, police, guy in question, etc) whether you were physically attacked in a sexual assault/attack by this man and not just "played" and got your feelings hurt. There is a big difference here. Think clearly about what you are accusing this man of and make sure you understand the meaning of "sexual assault".
I agree with Axpatguy38, sounds like he just wasn't honest with you and now you are angry. Just let it go and get on with your life. Why waste your time and effort and energy on this guy who has hurt your feelings?
To your question, "Does it mean that all women should let guys to cheat and screw up?" No it does not but what it does mean is that everyone entering into a relationship (both sexes included here) need to use their brain and gut instinct in order to lessen the chances (everyone gets screwed over once in their lifetime at least) of getting played.
Whether he duped you, changed his mind or just did not want to continue having a relationship with you - I don't think he committed a crime. (unless of course he did regarding my 2nd paragraph but only you know that).
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ok, so I gather that it was not a sexual assault/attack in the traditional sense of a physical attack - glad that is cleared up. Rather that the man had dishonest intentions towards you. You are right in that I know nothing about HK laws but I would be surprised if anything happened with this case. There are 100s, if not 1000s of people out there doing the same thing. They meet people, date them for a few days, weeks and then after they sleep with them they got what they wanted and want you out of the picture. Without making you feel bad, it does happen all over the world and that is part and parcel of finding a partner. I would think this sort of "crime" would be pretty hard to prove. Sounds like you two dated for a short while - how then can it be proven that he was only after you for sex if you had more than a few dates before sleeping with each other? He could quite easily just argue that you two were not sexually compatible.
We (certainly myself) do not agree that guys or anyone should treat anyone with mal intention, you need to read these posts more carefully. What we said was along the lines of,sh*t happens, get over it.
Your quote: "If you go to the street and touch a woman with an intention then it is not illegal if a woman reported this?" This is a stupid example. Stop making it sound similar to a sexual physical attack - it was not. The above example you provide relates it to a physical assualt - yours was not.
Out of curiosity, how long was it from when you met online to meeting each other face to face? Then how long from meeting face to face did you sleep together?
Also, please cut and paste some information on the laws around this - would be interested to see.
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I did not see that you mentioned he has already apologised.
He's apologised. Now move on.
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You should be prosecuted for wasting police time!
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"cara : If a woman is drunk and a man knew it but he required sex but if a woman is not willing to then it is sexual assault."
If she was not willing, sure. But in this case it sounds as if she was willing. That is not rape.
In your boat case, that is probably rape. I won't defend the men, but it is foolish for a girl to get so drunk that she is defenseless against that kind of thing. Again, totally the men in the wrong, but being right doesn't help the girl in those cases.
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I suspect hk111beauty is starting to realise how silly her thread is as most of her posts have been deleted.
hesheweyou and hk111beauty - I am actually a woman. A woman with a brain and common sense. Whilst I am not defending the guy in question and his actions, I can see when this is just a simple case of someone being cheated on and not a criminal case that needs the police to be involved. We've all been there (at least the unlucky ones have!) and managed to get over it, hk111beauty should do the same. So she made a mistake and picked a loser - it's a hard lesson to learn but one to remember for next time. Along with, if you don't want to sleep with him, GET OUT OF HIS BED and go home!
Oh and one more thing - find out the true meaning of sexual assault/attack before you accuse somebody of it. Cara and axptguy38 seem to be native english speakers along with myself - trust us when we tell you what it really means.
It's been very stupid, selfish, ignorant and down right insensitive of you, hk111beauty to use it in the context that you have on a post that some kind person, littlebird99 has set up to try and help the REAL VICTIMS of sexual assault.
Shame on you hk111beauty. Shame. On. You.
I can't help feeling like the guy hk111beauty was involved with had a lucky escape. Nothing like a woman scorned eh folks?!
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If someone sexually assaulted me, I sure as hell would not stick around till the morning like hk111beauty and then moan about them checking out other girls online!!!
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is anyone else reminded by this thread of the three ladies who work at a law firm in princes building and who every now and then come onto this site with some new usernames and start some utterly useless thread making all kind of funny allegations and arguments which usually revolve around the application of law?
i think we have just witnessed two of them again. sad that a very serious thread has been hijacked like this
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police may find out with proofs and witnesses. go to the streets then you will see police's banners about internet dating crimes.
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p.mason : It is not about money, it is about a crime. You think a man was arrested for the NYE sexual assault case, he is rich ?
it is a case of someone who has defrauded women on a dating site.
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happyyoyo, hesheweyou and actuallygood are the same person i think. All brand new users. Your style of english is the same and you offer nothing else to the discussion only to tell hk111beauty to go to the police. In fact, I would bet my life that all 4 are the same person.
How pathetic you are. You come on here to ask this forum what you should do only to find most people laughing at you. Yet you still create new user names to back yourself up! There is no point to this thread anymore. You know what you want to do (get revenge) so do you really need to keep creating new names for yourself and making yourself look like an idiot! You clearly don't need anyone's advice for you have not agreed or taken on board anything of what anyone has said.
Get a life.
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defunct : Nada Nada. You are confusing.
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haha no, i actually think he got the point :)
if only i could remember the names that were used before. i think bhklady or something?
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cookie09 : we knew who are you and your real name. :) Trust our IT experts skills. If we told people about you, what do you do and your real name then they will be laughing it out loud. LOL You've got no men to love you and touch you. :) At least hk111beauty got men to touch her. :) It is my point.
You have nothing to do here, just abuse many users.
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congratulations, i can live with no men love and touch me. . .
. . . especially since i am male
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I have just read through this thread and I am not only SHOCKED but I am disgusted at the comments that have followed the original and SERIOUS post added by littlebird99...
The reported sexual assault attacks took place and were real in Hong Kong...
If you have useful information then give it otherwise take your useless pieces of advice somewhere else
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..and above all..if it is serious.. then report it to the police.. stop feeding a bunch of idiots on this site with entertainment which it is not
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Well said Blazing Saddles. If others want to have a discussion about guys being players etc then they should have started a new thread rather than take away from the incredible seriousness of the original point from littlebird99 with their fatuous commentary. Is it possible for Asiaxpat to delete these/move them elsewhere so the original intent of the post can be restored and the women who were the subject of the attacks not feel that what happened to them is being trivialised?
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Please refrain from using this thread if it is not related to the case. It was meant as a bulletin rather than a discussion forum. This site was chosen as it could potentially reach the most people, particularly expat caucasian (white) women. There is no need to reply at all just please forward to anyone you know living in the Caine Rd area. Just to clarify the arrested man is a Chinese male in his early 30's and all of the 7 vicitms are caucasian (white) women. These women were followed home and attacked in the stairwell or near the elevator. This is NOT a case of date rape.
Again I ask you to please help by forwarding this bulletin and encouraging anyone who lives in this area and has suffered an attack to contact the Central Police Station OR Detective Louis Tam at 9388 0118
Thank you blazing saddles and arinoco1 for your postings.
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I have a photo of the police's banner in th street where I took it against cyber sexual crimes as well. Girls / Women may provide info by email at crimeinformation@police.gov.hk if you are one of the the victims. The expat is not a kid and he should know what has he done targeting into women with his intentions and dishonest. He is an expat working in an investment bank and lives in SOHO. It is not fun at all.
Read this - http://www.police.gov.hk/offbeat/911/eng/p01.htm
We are mature to know what is sexual offense.
Offense
犯罪,傷感情,攻擊
Displeasure; umbrage; resentment; misdeed; misdemeanor; trespass; transgression; delinquency; fault; sin; crime; affront; indignity; outrage; insult.
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