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natasha84
18 yrs ago
hi I just had a miscarriage 3weeks agao and my parnter and just this week I have starting going to the bathroom few time a nice and day but I haven't done a test yet but just wanting to know whether I am and is it ok to get pregnant after a miscarriage I have read thur alot of books but don't know whether they were telling the truth or not...
I am still trying to get ova my first lot it was the frist time in my life that I actully did something right and I was very happy about it..but then miscarriage just like that....
need help please
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hi,
sorry to hear about your miscarriage.
my friend miscarried recently and her doctor advised her to wait until her period returns back to normal before trying again - for physical and emotional reasons.
it's just what she told me, i'm no expert - you should see a doctor about this and seek appropriate advice.
good luck.
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Sorry to hear about your m/c. My sister realised that she was pregnant a little while after a m/c, when her period never returned. She gave birth to a perfect baby boy.
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Ok so i heard from 2 different doctors. One told me to wait 6 months before trying again to let my body repair itself. Another one said wait til your next period then try. I would say our bodies are tougher then we think. If you are wanting to try again or think your pregnant i think you will be just fine. I got pregnant with my 2nd baby 6 months after i had my first. 2nd baby was big, and healthy.
I wish you good luck dear!
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thankz ya all for the advice...hope everything goes well with you and your families...all the best in the future...
thankz again
BUT I HAVE ANOTHER QUESTION?
Is it alrite to handle the miscarry all by yourself...When I had my miscarry it only took a few days and everything came out...I was only 3weeks pg,,,/is it because I walk alot while I was pg and stand lot.... and after that I was fine until now I keep on going to the bathroom...Do I still need to go and see a doc. See I am 23 yrs old and I can't talk to my mother about it she'll go carzy when she find out..and you people are the only one that i feel safe telling this too...and I really need your help I feel fine it just that I go bathroom alot heh ehe he h////
Cheers
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cd
18 yrs ago
Did you do a pregnancy test the first time? Normally you wouldn't get a positive result until 4 weeks (counted from the date of your last period). Maybe you had what is called an implantation bleed which could explain why you still think you're pregnant. Or sometimes you hear of people being pregnant with twins, miscarrying one, but carrying on with the pregnancy with the other. Walking and standing a lot shouldn't cause a miscarriage, people do all sorts of stuff from skiing, to surfing before they realise they're pregnant without any worries.
Perhaps the quickest solution would be to do a home pregnancy test, if its negative maybe its cystitus (wrong spelling) or a bladder infection thats causing the frequent weeing.
Its fine to handle a miscarriage yourself, I had one between my 2nd and 3rd babies at 9 weeks, had no pain, needed no medical intervention, it all happened by itself.
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Totty
18 yrs ago
Please be careful if you go down the 'DIY' route.
I've had a few miscarriages:
1. Dr left my body to do it all by itself and i bled for a good few weeks and felt miserable
2. Second miscarriage (ectopic) had to have surgery
3. Third miscarriage Dr performed D and C
4. Fourth Miscarriage, i bled and was in the UK during SARS. British hospital refused to scan me, knew i was pregnant, 14 weeks, and sent me back with tablets to stop the bleeding. 5 weeks later rushed to hospital with 105 fever and cramping, turned out i had sceptic miscarriage where nothing had come out and poisonous systs had formed.
I have two fab girls now in between the above but please be careful, take time and look after yourself.
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cd
18 yrs ago
I did have a scan that showed that everything had gone by itself, by handling it yourself I meant that not all miscarriages need a Dand C or other medical intervention. A lot, especially in the first few weeks don't even need a visit to the doctor.
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I miscarried my 1st pregnancy at 8 weeks, went to the hospital for checking but didn't need any medicine or D & C, just Panadol for the pain...
The Dr. told me to wait until my period return to try to conceive again. We didn't really pay attention, but only got pregnant another 5 months later.
In your case Natasha84 I would definitely do a home test...
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