we are married for almost 2 years now and we have been having little or NO s*x at all (the last time was about 1/2 year ago). I know he loves me a lot and he will not cheat on me. I have talked to him about this but he says relationship and love is not only about s*x. That I understand but it doesn't mean that there shouldn't be any at all!!! I am so confused whether he has lost intereste in me or what he says "he doesn't need it"! What should I do if I need it???!!!
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Thanks Cara for your advice. I have spent 3 times talking to him but still no use!
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both of us planned to have kids before I reached 32 (within this coming 2 years). But getting pregnant isn't a major issue to me at the moment. The problem is getting him into intimate again!!!! He is a very good husband otherwise!
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cara has a point. If your hubby doesn't want kids - or kids yet - he could be holding off to avoid it.
A friend's husband stopped wanting sex and become withdrawn. She gently persuaded him to discuss what was the matter and it turned out he had found a lump in one of his testicles. He finally agreed to see a doctor, she went too to reassure him. It was cancer but they got through it and, apparently, are making up for lost sex.
My point is that guys are not always able to say what is bothering them and the problem with your chap could be any number of things. Let him know you are concerned about him and the situation, that you love him and you are ready to talk about whatever the problem is, without judgment, whenever he is.
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FYI: men do NOT go without sex for 6 months. If he's not getting it from you he's getting from somewhere else.
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Kimmi
19 yrs ago
Strawcarrie, lots of men and women go through this after a few years of marriage unfortunately. But dont give up, try to talk to your man and really let him know it affecting you. He's proberly under alot of stress for some reason, mabe working too hard etc, usual stuff. It doesnt mean hes doesnt love you or like Innocence says 'getting somewhere else!'Try some seduction or something. Get some nice underwear etc, try the massage thing. Every now and then we need to spice things up in our marriage otherwse it WILL go sour and you may reach the point of no return, then its sad. GOOD LUCK!!
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Why not tell him - ever so sweetly - that you're determined to have kids one way or the other; so they may as well be genetically his.
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One of my friends was in the same situation a couple of years ago and she had a nervous break down. I think it is important to talk to your husband before it affects you too much to recuperate. My friend had a long talk, and they went to see a doctor, and now has a beautiful 1yrr old girl through IVF. I see she's not entirely happy about not having intimacy they used to have before they got married, but is somewhat content with the current situation...having a baby to raise together. We don't know what was the cause of husband not being able to have intercourse, but it sure did help their relationship to talk.
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i suggest you to change your style, maybe you gain weight? if you do you need to think about it, and you should need to have a little kinky show infront of your husband, i know the feelings of a girl who have no sex....thats why i did try to search how to make the sex life back, then finally i knew it, its like a food on the table, if you always eat rice.... sometimes you wanted to eat pasta, i change my lifestyle,clothes, hair style, body figure prefer dinner with candle lights, then i try to seduce him, its work, on bed i try to make s*x very hot, and do unsual thing that never than before, so the excitement is back, and now everyday in my life i have s*x with him..... who knows if you try my suggestion you'll got a s*x life you ever imagine....
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yeah, men can't survive without SEX at most 10days.... you should talk to him for intimacy among couples.
Like my parents retired is having SEX every 2 days, for us BUSY professional only 10days once
Is it normal ?
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Poseidon, my x and I would have sex about twice a week after 8 years of relationships. So I really think that there is a problem between us (my husband and I) and I do NOT think my husband is "gay" Soulsister...
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Hi Strawcarrie,
so you & your husband relationships same like us.
You should speak up for the needs of intimacy environment like Dining together more often at home with little wine & speak up of your X needs...unless he's working shift duties.
You should advise him for semen analysis to check whether its under 10mg per wash ?
Its painless, Preparations of semen provided, half an hour before from home to hospital also can.
By this way, both of you knows what hidden beneath & steps before pregnancy...
Try to have 3 times a week, I am trying to also.
But my conditions is having PCOS, Miscarriages is very high at 29.
Those less than 6 period a year call PCOS.
Regards
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