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Perthites
20 yrs ago
I know so many of you are here and have been here, we didn't get preganant again this month and although we were trying naturally at our Dr's suggestion after our misscarriage it still hurts so much. We've been doing this for a year now and it's not getting any easier. My husband is soo soo supportive and he's been going thur all this too but he puts on a brave face for me so he can pick me up every time. But when the infertility problem is mine and it's such a nautral thing for a women to do and i can't do it, i can't provide it for my husband and i it's depressing me. Please help me get thru this so i can continue this test as i so want to have a baby. I have a Dr's appointment tomorrow but we are just checking everything is clear as we can't afford to pay medical bills for another few months until our tax is paid off.I know so many of you have been in worse situation than mine but it only happened today and i need some help please.
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tillu
20 yrs ago
Hi Perthites
Hey whats wrong with you, you are always there to motivate others for me you are "the Woman" with courage. I know i can feel your pain. The same thing happens to me and the result is high blood pressure. Me and my husband discussed the things and he told me clearly the world doesn't end here. You know there are millions of childred who need mothers you can adopt one. I know its very difficult, As you once got pregnant so just keep trying naturally and pray to God . Be brave and we are there for you and pray for you. Good luck and lots of baby dust
Take care, I know you will over come this
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Thank you Tillu just having a bad day just thought this would be our month, we both did.Thanking for saying i have had courage in the past funny you should say that as my husband was surprised by my strong recation and ask where the brave me was today.Your so kind thank you
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Hi Perthites!
I know how hard it easy. We all have gone through this some day or the other. Just be positive, dont give up. There is always a silver lining at the end of each cloud.
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Thanks AC123, with each kind reply i feel a little better.
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ShazP
20 yrs ago
Perthites, The more you think about it, the more it gets to you. Try to be easy on yourself.
I certainly went through it. My Husband finally said' enough' lets just enjoy each other......Lo & behold in a couple of months I was preggers.
Everyone is different. Keep your chin up & go with the flow...all the best :)
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Thanks spare rib. I feel a lot better today. We went to the Dr and she is my saviour she's so straight down the line and tells it like it is. She was very positive and is working with us with the budget we have this month.I'm actually quite excited about it all. So my chin is up and so are my spirits. Thanks.
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ShazP
20 yrs ago
Good for you girl...All the very best..Have all parts crossed for you & your Hubby....;):)
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Thanks again. I 'm cool now no worries!
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JJZ
20 yrs ago
Hi Perthites
I mentioned this a while back, but are you still interested in meeting up? I have been going through the same thing as well, TTC after a miscarriage . It helps talking with others going through the same thing. And if any of the other ladies are interested as well?
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Um JJZ not sure whether i'm brave enough to actually show my face! Can we see if anyone else is interested and then i can decided. Sorry.
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Hah i know what you mean i've only just looked at a photo sent to me over a week ago of a friends newborn. My hubby hasn't even looked yet! Unfortuntatly we can't escape it, it's life. Could you do something nice for yourself today like go for a massage or paint your nails lie in the sun by a pool, visit a friend who doesen't know your situation? Meet hubby for lunch maybe. It sucks i know, we have our horrible down days but we have to try and remember that it will YES it will happen for us. Wish you all the best, take care my thoughts are with you.
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